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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Just click on the rebroadcast link. It will be there until todays show at 12:00. After that you can pull it in archives for 9-21 by doing a date search.

Does the segment start out talking about discipline of children?

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The segment is in a constant state of play so you might jump into the middle, end or beginning depending on the time.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
The segment is in a constant state of play so you might jump into the middle, end or beginning depending on the time.

Thanks!

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ok, it is in this segment http://www.marriagebuilders.com/radio_program/play_segment.cfm?sid=3234

You can fast forward to 8:45


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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When I told WW that I told her parents and OM's parents:

WW: It's none of their business! What are you going to do next, take an ad out in the paper?

ME: Hey, that's not a bad idea.


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Wow...
that could have been my WW.
I remember her saying to me "What made you do that?" I flat blew it when I told her MB told me to. I should have said "I would do anything to make it clear that my family will not be torn apart by an A." Regardless, my WW said "So do you do everything you hear or read on the internet?" I was so defensive and feeling guilty etc. that I only just barely stood my ground. And then I think about my WW's questons, threats to divorce me etc... They were all centered around the fact that I exposed something she did to the entire family. Somehow, I really did allow my WW to make me feel so guilty about my history of angry outbursts (verbal abuse), that I almost did nothing but allow her to drive over me.
Okay, okay... after nearly two years may I am starting to get this MB stuff.
Course some of you may be saying (no... he still doesn't get it). But today I can smile at myself and where I was and know that I am alive, I am not always in pain, and that there has been a little progress....

Me BS 56
She WW 50
Hers 18, 22
Mine 22, 28, 30
Ours DS 12
D-Day 1 - April 26 2009
D-Dapy 2 - October 15 2009
Exposed February 22, 2010
Me: Reforming Verbal Abuser (and I always will be).
She: still won't divulge OM # 2 despite overwhelming evidence, but slowly, ever so slowly, she is turning towards me. Some days I have hope and that is worth all the pain and patience.

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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Originally Posted by TryingEverything
When I told WW that I told her parents and OM's parents:

WW: It's none of their business! What are you going to do next, take an ad out in the paper?

ME: Hey, that's not a bad idea.

When I lived in SC, there was a man who used to stand by the main road where TONS of traffic went by. Was there for several weeks (5 or 6?).

He was wearing a sandwich board that read:

"Susan, I am sorry I cheated. I will never do it again"

People used to honk and call out at him. I guess Susan needed to do FULL exposure!




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Hey! A business opportunity presents itself!

I will hire myself out as a BW's penitent spouse wearing such a placard on a busy highway, "Mary Jones, of Maple Street, Oaktown, I'm sorry I cheated on you! I am below slime!"

People going past likely won't know what Bob Jones (the cad!) looks like, and I never actually claimed to be Bob!

Still, better check with a lawyer.......

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Originally Posted by NeverGuessed
Hey! A business opportunity presents itself!

I will hire myself out as a BW's penitent spouse wearing such a placard on a busy highway, "Mary Jones, of Maple Street, Oaktown, I'm sorry I cheated on you! I am below slime!"

People going past likely won't know what Bob Jones (the cad!) looks like, and I never actually claimed to be Bob!

Still, better check with a lawyer.......

rotflmao

Only because it was so close to Bob Jones University!

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This made my day.
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Pep!!!! Seeing you back here has made MY day!

Pep's back! Hurrah!!!!


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