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my husband stopped swearing at me but the other day said he cant completely stop smoking weed and drinking right away but he'll stop in his own time and i told him im not okay with that.. so im staying at my moms since saturday and told him when he decides to get help for his marijuana addiction ill come back home.. do you agree?

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my husband stopped swearing at me but the other day said he cant completely stop smoking weed and drinking right away but he'll stop in his own time and i told him im not okay with that.. so im staying at my moms since saturday and told him when he decides to get help for his marijuana addiction ill come back home.. do you agree?
Angela, 10 days isn't nearly long enough to determine whether or not your husband is committed to stopping his verbal abuse.

And yes, he CAN stop smoking and drinking. He can do it right now, this minute. But he chooses not to. Good job, moving out. Now you need to make it stick.


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Glad to hear you are protecting yourself.


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