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Are you going to do something for your marriage or just blog?
NC letter for example?
People will stop posting if they see no action.
2Sweet will divorce you if there is no action because she will rightly conclude that it is 'meant to be' over and there wil be no 'coming back' if you continue to betray her.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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2sweet hopefully will be back in town soon from that long trip than she be back where everyone can see her post again olh ya i wasnt reading them looked at her frist page when she frist got me on here to see how she started was going to share together when time was right but now she on the trip
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You have way too much work of your own to do to bother with 2Sweets thread.
Hows that letter coming?
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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So you went to a lawyer.
Did you ask them to put the house in trust for your children?
Or did you ask them to draft a post-nuputal agreement?
Or are you preparing for divorce?
Because that will be a HUGE message to your wife....which route you chose to take....
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That is a lie tsg. I saw you logged onto your wifes thread for a considerable time way after you first started posting. You are now trying to tempt 2sweet back to her thread as you have lost a source of information to manipulate her. Stop the manipulation and start working on yourself!
Now, back to the NCL?
Me (BW): 35
Married 1999 with no kids, DDay July 2011, OC born September 2012, Divorce final November 2012.
WXH (Gollum) is corrupted by his A, and now forever bound to it.
Plan B has set me free.
"Mourn the man he was. Know the man he is."
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2sweet hopefully will be back in town soon from that long trip than she be back where everyone can see her post again olh ya i wasnt reading them looked at her frist page when she frist got me on here to see how she started was going to share together when time was right but now she on the trip I can't even understand this. Is this a "yes" or "no" answer to my question, which was, have you contacted Dr. Harley to see if you could talk to him directly on his radio show? It would probably be very helpful for you. http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi4200_radio.html
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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If I understand TSG -- they sent the No-Contact-Letter on the 6th.
I hope you really did tsg! That would be a good first step.
2sweet wants to work on your marriage. I hope you will follow through on the rest of her requests. She needs to feel safe.
You are the only one who can make her feel safe.
Did you end all ways for x wife to get ahold of you?
Change your phone number? etc?
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when did 2S leave?
When will 2S be back from that long trip?
did you see your lawyer together?
3 simple questions, can you please just answer one question directly they are pretty 2 dates and a yes or no.
oh yeah and one more- did you mail the NC letter? this is a yes or no also.
you cannot seem to answer the hard questions people are posting may be these will break the ice and show people that you are willing to try.
Me 44- yes ugggh
WH 47
together 26 years M 19
serial cheater big time
DD1 2.24.11
NC letter sent 3/7/11
NC letter to OW2 april
final truths 5/8-- all of them poly confirmed 5/18
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wow you dont think i tell my wife what im doing well wrong answer you dont have to tell her nothing if i wanted to i could go post it to her myself ya i know she not on this page anymore thanks for the help
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no did not talk to him on no radio show spent over 2000.00 talking on the phone thanks for the help
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Hell, Lexxxy, why are we here?
It feels like we're reading the same thing over and over again kind of like the Groundhog Day movie.
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look NC letter was mailed by her and me she dropped it in the box
but it to late i new what was coming next im the one doing it not her but to show her i did care i wanted the letter mailed frist thanks everyone
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 better question....
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im the one doing it not her
What does this mean?
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You are very hard to communicate with.
Could you try putting a . after your sentences?
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because she asked me to come back on here
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"look NC letter was mailed by her and me she dropped it in the box"
thank you for answering the question.
Me 44- yes ugggh
WH 47
together 26 years M 19
serial cheater big time
DD1 2.24.11
NC letter sent 3/7/11
NC letter to OW2 april
final truths 5/8-- all of them poly confirmed 5/18
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What did you mean by "im the one doing it not her"
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You are very hard to communicate with.
Could you try putting a . after your sentences? It would help. ..... . . .... . ... . . . . . . . .......................... . . . . . . ....
Last edited by Northwood8900; 01/09/12 03:32 PM. Reason: Deleted extraneous period.
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