I found his rank and that he is in the 1st Cavalry. How would I recognize the other stuff that might tell me his unit?

I just thought of another site you can check....go to togetherweserved.com and search his name. You can probably see some information on there.

Also, look for patches on his uniform that have pictures on them.

Also, if you can access you account online, you can at least get call and text logs showing contact between them.

Put some kind of keylogger on the computer too.

Here is the letter that I just sent to all 293 of Angelo's facebook friends.

This message is about your friend Angelio.

For the past two months he has put my family through the worst hell we have ever experienced. In November, Angelio met my wife on a plane. He started telling her how damaged he was by his experiences in Iraq, and how mentally unstable he is as a result. He talked about how he is haunted by the images of people he has killed and how he doesn�t know if he can control himself enough to ever heal. Angelio conveyed the distinct impression that he is a danger to himself and others. After the flight he �friended� her on facebook and started to use her pity for him has the basis of a seduction that she did not see coming. She told him to stop, that she was married and had a 7 year old boy at home and a husband that she loves. But he would not stop with his pitiful stories.

My wife is a caregiver. She trains people on how to overcome Cancer and other diseases using nutrition. She is a real life miracle worker with big heart who will put herself on the line to help someone in need. Her job is extremely intense. She basically moves in for a week with families suffering from illness, teaching them how to heal themselves with a very specific diet, cleansing, and prescription medication. It is exhausting, draining work. At the end of her stay in Texas, when Angelio would not relent, and was begging to see her, torturing her with tales of his impending madness, she relented. She met him at a hotel and they had sex all night without a condom.

Since then Angelo has continued his seduction of my wife, relentlessly contacting her via facebook and phone, torturing her with his unending self pity that makes her feel that she is the only person keeping Angelio alive right now. She told me about this two weeks ago. Our 7 year old son overheard us talking about this, and how threatened I feel by this mentally unstable sniper who is clearly suffering from PTSD and is in love with my wife. He completely freaked out and for a while thought that Angelio is going to come kill us all. We managed to talk him down and he seems OK now, but I can see that the fear of Angelio is still there in my son.

Two weeks ago I had a brief phone conversation with Angelio that was not encouraging. He attempted to mislead me at every turn, and conveyed only a vague sense of remorse for what he had done. He promised to never contact my wife again, but after that call he continued his seduction of my wife.

So why am I telling you this? I am trying to end Angelio�s unrelenting torture of my family. I am also trying to get him the help he needs to heal. If you find it odd that I would contact every one of Angelio�s facebook friends about this, I have three questions for you. If you could make one of your child�s nightmares go away, would you? If you could help your spouse out of a downward spiral of depression, one that was destroying your marriage, would you? If you could liberate yourself from an unknown fear that plagues you night and day, would you? My hope is that you may be able to help Angelio, or at the very least you may need a warning of his instability and predatory behavior. Right now I�m trying to find out who Angelio�s commanding officer is at Fort Hood so that I can have him talk to Angelio about getting help for his problems. If you can help me find Angelio�s CO I would be forever grateful.
Thank you

How did you send that to 300 people? One at a time?

I'm not sure I would've included this. You just tipped your hand to the enemy about your further intentions in regards to exposure.

sent it one at a time. Took 5 hours.

I figure one way or another I'm going to get to his CO. Maybe this will help, maybe it won't, but I can't see it hindering my efforts.

OK how do I access an i-phone account that isn't mine?
This has all been done via the i-phone.

Wow!! Good job!

Have you had any response yet from your messages? Did you change your personal photo to one of you and your wife and child?

I've gotten one response from a highschool friend of his. He is in his hometown in FL now taking care of his Dad who has cancer. His mother died of cancer a few months ago.

And thanks for the picture change suggestion! I'll do that now.

Why have you NOT contacted the IG yet?

I would start here ----> http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=postlist&Board=71&page=1


CV

He did, previous page at 0852 this morning. I'm on my mobile or I'd quote it for you.

PS welcome back!

He did. Midway down on page 6

CV

All true. But this IG is trying not to do the hard work! Press him to do so. Tell him you want to file an official complaint. That you will supply as much evidence as possible...but that you expect at the very least that the unit orders this NCO to cease contact with your wife.

Do this tomorrow. If they still want to wait on you getting "hard proof", then I will give you a way for you to contact me offline. And I will get the info and contact the IG myself. Like I said, I am a former IG. Was one for 4 years. IG case loads are so busy, that many times they will try to talk you out of filing anything that doesnt have "meat" on it. Again, you will be able to help the IG by getting some meat...rather than just a conversation with his wife. But that isnt a total requirement to get them to order this NCO to cease contact.

One way is to get into an email conversation with him, now that you exposed to all his FB friends and family. Tape the conversation (as long as that is legal in your state). Then get the OM to talk about the affair on the tape. Or better, in the email.
So, get all of the info you have...call him back and tell him what I said for you to tell him. Then let us know the result.

Any recommendations on recorder?