If the Army does it right, he won't be kicked out immediately. He will spend a little time in the hoosegow first. I doubt he would "come after you". If you are worried though, I would get an RO on him after all this (in a few months, depending on the circumstances) to CYA legally and then just treat him like anyone else that would break in and try and hurt your family.

But I seriously doubt after all this he will go through the trouble.

OK, making the recordings tonight to send to the IG and his CO. The whole universe seems to be telling me to do this.

Good on ya. And right after you do this, expose to everyone else you haven't exposed too.

Have you exposed to her parents yet?

Good man. You are not only doing the right thing for you and your family...but you might be saving lives. Because this POS is so self-centered, he would end up getting his fellow soldiers killed. There is no room in my Army for a man without honor.

And as was just mentioned...once you send it AND receive word that they have received it...then make sure you get all of this info out in the final big exposure dump. Family, friends, etc.

But wait until you send it and they have a day or two to deal with it. Why? Because when the IG walks into the room, puts this POS under oath...and starts asking questions, he will hold things back in order to get the kid to spill the beans. By them slowly letting out facts, the interviewee will eventually think they know more than they do...and will spill far more than they knew.

So, give them a chance to work what you have given them before launching. You might even tell them that you have been advised by a doctor (Harly) through his methods of saving marriages, that you have to release all of this in order to move forward. But you want to give them a chance first. And can they tell you how long you should wait, in order to give them a chance to work the issue.

They will advise you what they would like to see.

Ascending,

Do you have an update? How are things?

Wow...that's spooky! I was just thinking about Ascending myself