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My son is 14,i worked the graveyard shift for 2.5yrs,it was very straining on the relationship and for my son,we spent time together,but i believe it was not enough quality time,me and him alone just hanging out,so to a point the FIL is correct.My daughter is 12,she spends more time with mom,i do also try,but my son is more attached Ed says in a post earlier these are not his bio children although he treats them like they were his own. Still-Keep the VAR on and get someone trusted to stay with you if possible. nESRE
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I have 2 VAR 's not a problem.I know what the plan is I just need to stay ahead of the game.it is amazing how when these 2 (WW MIL) get together and skeem add POSOM and its a war.I do have a large support group which helps alot ,but it is still nerve racking.
Tom stated in his post that I was scared of WW.now I hope he understands why,living this way watching my back always wondering what will.happen next,I don't wish this upon my worst enemy.
I will stay at a friends house for tonight as I need to get sleep.I am allowed to do that once in awhile just to get away for a little.I have to do this to keep my mind together.
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Has she changed the locks on your house yet?
You're going about this the wrong way. You did nothing wrong so stop acting like you did. You go home. You go sleep in your bed. She can sleep on the floor for all you care. You don't avoid your WW in your own house.
If you keep coming and going, staying here and there, then it'll make it that much easier for her to get you out of the house.
Me (BH)
FWW
Married 2000, DS 8, DD 6, DD 2
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I understand.locks haven't been changed.I was told that it is illegal to do so as I thought about doing that myself.
I just needed a little break from it all it felt good to have some quiet time and get some sleep.this hasn't been a good time for me and yes I am feeling the heat.
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