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Re: I thought I was over the insecurity.
AGoodGuy #2599735 02/23/12 07:16 PM
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I wouldn't want the anxiety, if I didn't feel I could trust someone, I wouldn't be with them.

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Re: I thought I was over the insecurity.
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For me, there's no being with ANYONE without some occasional anxiety. Sometimes it's more manageable than others.

I've been alone at bf's house for a few hours and resisted the urge to rummage through all his things. Not bad, hmmm? (Just kidding. Sort of.)

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Re: I thought I was over the insecurity.
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Originally Posted by Angelbreath
I've been alone at bf's house for a few hours and resisted the urge to rummage through all his things. Not bad, hmmm? (Just kidding. Sort of.)

I had to ponder this for a while, and finally decided that it is sort of bad. Not that you resisted the urge, that is good, but that you had the urge. I said it before and I'll say it again - listen to your gut. If it's giving you the urge to rummage, well, if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, then there is probably a reason for your urge to begin with.

I've dated women who also gave me that weird gut discomfort, the urge to check up on them. I also dated others that never gave me that feeling. You know which type I'd pick. Listen to your gut.

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Re: I thought I was over the insecurity.
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Originally Posted by AGoodGuy
Originally Posted by Angelbreath
I've been alone at bf's house for a few hours and resisted the urge to rummage through all his things. Not bad, hmmm? (Just kidding. Sort of.)

I had to ponder this for a while, and finally decided that it is sort of bad. Not that you resisted the urge, that is good, but that you had the urge. I said it before and I'll say it again - listen to your gut. If it's giving you the urge to rummage, well, if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, there is probably a reason for your urge to begin with.

I've dated women who also gave me that weird gut discomfort, the urge to check up on them. I also dated others that never gave me that feeling. You know which type I'd pick. Listen to your gut.

AGG

I agree to trust your gut a bit. Not your heart....your gut.
Re: I thought I was over the insecurity.
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Good point AGG, as usual! smile

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