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OK not so good news, the OW has deleted her facebook account and so has my WH! Now I'm left wondering what is going on. The OW contacted my WH at 11pm last night, they spoke for almost 4 minutes, I think she may have seen the friend request from her husband to me on facebook.
What do I do now?
My WH still hasn't contacted me at all, his sister is very short in her responses to me and I'm struggling to know whether I should contact him or just carry on living my life and waiting for him to realise whether or not he wants to be with me.
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You keep on with your plans. Finish exposure by getting hold of OWH - don't assume he has sent you the message either it could easily be his wife trying to make it look like he's informed. Get him in person. If he agrees to meet and shows up then you'll know.
As for the waywards acting strange and covering themselves by closing accounts that is totally normal. Keep at it.
You want to carry on with your life, fine. You'll be in plan B in a few weeks if he's not repentant anyway.
But you have to Plan A like a rockstar first. Look good, stand up to adultery, make no apologies and be unstoppable.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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