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Re: trying to move forward
Caracal #2619545 04/26/12 08:48 PM
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The police are certainly NOT busting a gut on this one. Actually, they seem to be treating it as a bit of a joke given it all started from an A. Even if these breaches get to Court, it will likely take months. The police are not prioritising it by any means.

Both Kimono and her H have contacted OW's H to expose. Kimono has also done FB exposure to OW's friends / family (as many as she knew of, OW has friend list private).

Kimono has told me that if OW does not stop contact, she will not be able to heal. With every contact, Kimono thinks about giving up on recovery. It sets her back to D Day.

I hope my clarifying won't upset you Kimono, I just want to get the best advice on how to help you and H with your recovery!!!

So MBer's... suggestions?
This is an outrage. How DARE they belittle this violation of Kimono's privacy because of its origins! How DARE they balk at responding to her concerns! I would immediately approach a supervisor with this in mind. If the supervisor doesn't address your concerns satisfactorily, ask him who HIS supervisor is. Suggest strongly to them that you intend to take your concerns about their unwillingness to do their jobs to the local newspaper. Let them know that you will be in touch with them EVERY DAY to see what, if anything, they have accomplished in order to protect you from this bodily and emotional threat.

In other words, be a pain in their neck. Sadly, that's what it sometimes takes.

D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!

Re: trying to move forward
maritalbliss #2619970 04/27/12 10:55 PM
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Kimino,

Have you and your WH changed all forms of communication? New phone numbers, new email and facebook?

Changed all ways for her to get a hold of you?

FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
Re: trying to move forward
BrainHurts #2620233 04/29/12 02:29 AM
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Please listen to these radio clips from Dr. Harley on resentment.

Radio Clip on resentment
Segment #2

FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
Re: trying to move forward
BrainHurts #2620398 04/29/12 09:37 PM
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Are you taking AD's?

Here is a radio clip that Dr. Harley explains the importance of AD's to a BW. Please consider this.
Radio Clip on why Dr. Harley recommends AD's

FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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