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I am. I just feel very confused because I am getting all sorts of cute little loving texts and cards. He is showering me with affection (which he knows is a big need for me) and he wasn't doing that before. I was actually probably going to do it after Saturday night since this week is Holy Week in my church. I was going to give him until 04/20 because that is the three-week mark since it was exposed and I read on the MB website not to let it go longer than three weeks, so I guess that is my cut off point. Did you read our posts about demanding that he end the affair? I have no idea in the world what you mean when you say he giving you cards?  what does that have to do with is affair? Are you reading our posts? He needs to be told TODAY that he has to end all contact. TODAY. Not in 3 weeks. Not in 3 days. TODAY.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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That really is what I am trying to do. Implement Plan A first. From my understanding, wives should not let their husbands continue in the marriage and the affair for more than three weeks because the wife's physical health starts to be compromised. April 20 is the three week mark, whereby if he will not agree, then on April 20 I will implement Plan B. You do 3 weeks of PLAN A, but you demand TODAY he end all contact with the OW. Plan A means you DEMAND no contact and tell him he has to move out if he won't end contact. Is anyone reading my posts??
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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