Originally Posted by windingitdown
we're getting along beautifully and having a great, loving time but she still wants to split up

OP has been gone from this thread for a month, but I'd like to point out that my ex husband thought the same thing for years. Even though I was trying to improve our marriage, he thought things were just fine.

My humble suggestion to anyone else in this boat is to really ask their spouse what's up and then LISTEN to the answer.


"If you will stop feeding your feelings, then they will stop controlling you" -Joyce Meyer