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What i wanted to do was contact the people that i found and do some fishing to find out if this is the correct OW. When i got confirmation then I would expose the A to them. Daisy. Did you read the exposure 101 thread I posted to you? Melodylane expresses that the exposure needs to be done all at once.
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Here Exposure Timing Exposure should be done immediately. The longer you wait, the more entrenched the affair becomes. There is never any �perfect� time to expose, so don�t delay while looking for an imaginary perfect time.
Expose on the SAME DAY � or as close as possible � in order to achieve a tsunami effect. The affairees should be completely taken by surprise. Doing this creates a powerful hit on the affair and prevents the affairees from pre-empting you
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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HI Daisy, just checking on you. Did you do the exposure? How did it go?
I would have loved to have found OW on facebook and exposed her for the skank she is but I couldn't find her. What 30 year old single girl doesn't use facebook?? LOL
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