Originally Posted by blindsided_mil
Ok let me clear this up the gentlemen that gave ma rides home was never married, He wasn't even in a relationship that i knew of. He just used to sit at the bar next to were i worked and take drunk solider's back to the barracks. He has a major operation to fix nerve damage, He stayed with H and I for the first week while the rest of the unit came back from the field. He had to be watched 24/7 and drove to the hospital everyday. H and I did it together, it brought us closer and things started to heal.

How is that relevant to what I just posted? Forget your WH for a moment. YOU have a problem with minimizing/accepting bad behavior. You have blinders on if that is all you got from my post.

Good luck to you.

BW - me
exWH - serial cheater
2 awesome kids
Divorced 12/2011




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