Thanks.

So THREE DAYS LATER . . . every person (except teenagers, 3 skank friends, and a handful who couldn't receive messages) on rodentwhore's fb list has received news of what she is. Take it or leave it.

I hear her fb status says something to the effect of, "There are no words . . . thank you, friends, for not believing such vicious lies."

Yes. Then they can go to the link with a picture of her in her skank bikini kissing my husband. Well, she just dug her own grave - lying POSOW.

Feels so good to get out of the pit and open fire for a change! She has believed she is so untouchable. No one stands up to her, probably no one ever has. She's in for a rude awakening.

Why have I let some disgusting little rodent tramp run things for so long? Shoulda just stepped on her and squashed her into the ground from Day 1.

I love it!! So you sent them all a picture of them together? Or is the link on her fb page?

I made a website - pretty proud of myself over that. Someone suggested it to me. Without violating privacy and giving people on here the means to get to it, suffice it to say that the caption at the top says, "Homewreckers R Us." I uploaded the mild photos I had of them together, and a note from her, a sweet religious quote about marriage & families; then I acquired the making out/bikini photo and added that to finish it off. Caption under that photo says, "Don't take my word for it - judge for yourself."

I wish I had worse pics, but don't yet. Working on it. Did the best I could with what I could get my hands on. I did also add a sentence at the bottom of the first page that said I was including only what was necessary to reveal the truth, that I would not post the vile porn photos that I was certain no one wanted to see, that I certainly wished I had not been exposed to them and would not pass such garbage along.

I included a link in the fb message, told people I wasn't going to attach anything out of respect for them, but they were free to check out the website if they felt they needed evidence.

So good, right? And you thought I had no balls, Melody . . .

Thanks for all the prodding.

OW BH let me a message, asking that I please take down the website. He doesn't want his 17-year-old to find it, as he is on the internet quite a bit and has a fb account. He is trying to protect his children, teach them to respect their mother as they have been commanded to do in the Bible.



Never met such an enabler, ever. So be it. He can go down with her, if he so chooses. Any man with a pair would toss her in the street and make her face her consequences. This would have ended long ago if he had, instead of his kids losing their skank whore mother completely.

I am just disgusted by all of this, completely.

I don't think that the website falls in line with either Plan A or Plan B. I would take it down. You are crossing into Plan F/U territory here.

I very much believe the website should stay up. All she is doing is exposing truth. There is no reason that others shouldn't see what these folks are up to.

Rainy, I am so proud of you!

And it would be good for the OW's 17 year old to see the truth about his mother. That idiot enabler father of his hurts his son and his wife by enabling. I would tell him that the pictures will stay up and that his son has a right to know the truth about his mother. Lies and illusions about one's parents do not make children happy or secure.

Good job!!

I absolutely LOVE the fact that you put the link to a page with the "proof" on it. Awesome!!!!

I'd keep it up...it's part of exposure. Unfortunately exposure didn't happen until Plan B/D so there are many things going on at once.

If the OW is free to tell lies about rainy, then rainy is free to tell the truth about HER! How else will others know the truth if the skankho is denying it all?

I see I am going to be outnumbered here, so I guess I will bow out
of this argument. I was stating my opinion and mentioning that I didn't think that it was part of Plan B(or Plan A for that fact). It, to me, is akin to taking out an ad in the newspaper, or a billboard. And both of those ideas have been considered too much.

Scotland, I think the difference in our perspective is that you are seeing this as a lovebuster, which it surely is, but it is a very necessary lovebuster. Exposure is a lovebuster and in this case, the OW is such a practiced liar that rainy needs to produce irrefutable proof to back up her claim. The OW is telling everyone that she is the liar. And keep in mind that these liars have been playing this game without interference for 3.5 years! So it will take something like this to blow them up.

I can't think of a more effective, impactful way to kill an affair. Rainy, have you priced out billboards?

Posters might be cheaper. Plus the added fun titles of "have you seen this skank" plastered all over the skanks neighborhood. Plus the joy of putting each and everyone up with some friends on a quiet saturday afternoon.

Hi, Scotland.

I haven't read through all these yet, but saw the one where you said you were outnumbered. I see your point. I do appreciate your opinion. You've helped me a lot. I want to explain a couple of things: the website is private, I didn't create a search engine so no one is going to just type in key words and find it. They have to have the exact link.

I didn't want people emailing me requesting proof, didn't want to have to be sending it back and forth all the time, keep answering questions and looking at the garbage. I thought this was a good solution. Instead of saying, "email me for proof" it says "you can go here if you want proof." As far as the filth and garbage of all this goes, anything I posted is extremely benign, just enough to prove something is amiss.

This woman has been dragging me through the mud for 3 1/2 years. She has told so many lies about me it's unbelievable. We went to high school together, so I don't appreciate it. She posted on her page how I was such a psycho, vicious liar trying to ruin her poor sweet perfect little life.

I've had it with WH and OW. I am finally standing up. You should have read what she's sent to my husband - filthiest hooker on the planet, and she's passing herself off as this model Christian wife and mother, doing everything she can to run my husband and make my life and my children's miserable. She needed to be revealed for what she is, and all parties involved can only benefit from any damage done, in the long run.

The website proves the affair (doesn't even have sexual content on it, which I would love to include at this point). But if she's going to call me a liar, I had the right to post the truth. She came into my family and destroyed it completely. She's had zero consequences up to this point, while everyone else suffers. She's never happy, continues to try to make me and even my kids more and more miserable. WH is a psycho at this point. I had to do something big enough to cause damage.

I also had Black Raven look at it - she's my IM, to get another MB opinion, and my close friend. OW's own family members told me it wasn't damning enough - post worse things.

Rainy

WH lives with his father. I told Mr. Enabler that his hooker wife came out here months ago and plastered dozens of photos of filth and garbage all over WH's bedroom, demanded he keep them up. (Marking her territory, I suppose. And he's an idiot that he let her do it, clearly). MY 17-yr-old graduated from something very important, something he had to endure largely because of his father's choices. OW was here on graduation day, so guess who missed it? My son was so upset he went to find his dad (all other graduate's fathers stood up to express love and appreciation for their sons), walked into a horror movie instead. My 19-year-old found it unintentionally too - a shrine to adultery and this hooker.

My sons lost their grandfather after that too, who is growing old and had been close to them. They used to go see him and help him all the time. They haven't been back unless they absolutely had to go there for something, and they go nowhere near their dad's territory in the house.

My sons were nauseated and horrified, and I don't know that they will ever really get over what they saw.

I do feel for her children, who are innocent. But I hope her 17-year-old finds it. Her kids deserve to know the truth. One more consequence she is protected from.

rainy, i agree w/scotty that you are thinking in plan FU right now. however, i also agree with ML, that you should keep the website up. rats like to scurry away from the light into one of their many hidey-holes. you are preventing her from being able to run away from her misdeeds, and that is part of exposure (you are the cat!). i think her BH doesn't want the site up because it is forcing HIM to look at her without his blinders on. frankly, i would put the FB chats up there as well!

you are experiencing the high of exposure right now, and goodness knows you deserve to after 3.5 very long and painful years. do be aware, however, that you are on the roller coaster, and you will come down from this feeling, and sometimes the higher the high, the lower the low. you will need to remain strong to continue with your plan (and i'm unsure what it is right now? do you want recovery, or are you done? i certainly wouldn't be surprised if your answer is "done."). i am thrilled you have the option of alienation of affection! and good on you for the chat with your DS19. i think that's very important.


roflmao!

YES! Amen! Thank you.

This was an absolute stroke of BRILLIANCE! I am sooo impressed that you thought to do that. People are much more inclined to click a link than they would be to ask you for evidence. Bravo, bravo, bravo!!

Yes, I'm sure you're right, Letty. Thanks. I'm sure I will feel sad and down many days still. It is sad. It's horrible. But I can honestly say that I have tried absolutely everything, I tried to just love this man through all this crap.

DONE DONE DONE. Did I mention I'm done? This has allowed me to cut him loose. It is painful and sad - there's no doubt. But I wouldn't take him back on a silver platter.