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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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You know, I was just explaining to my kids how a certain word is pronounced differently by carpetbaggers, and I thought "Hey -- MelodyLane says 'yankee' often enough, but I don't hear her say 'carpetbagger' often enough. I should suggest she use that word more often." And, of course, I knew just where to do that.

Oh, and "bump."


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If anyone's wondering, the difference between a yankee and a carpetbagger:

A yankee is a silly northerner who does and says things wrong.

A carpetbagger is a yankee who thinks that southern people ought to do and say things the same wrong way that he does.


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Incidentally, this thread is easy to find if you just search for the word "carbide."

I'm just saying.


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Aw, and so all of us Yankees are just carpetbaggers?

Thought a carpetbagger was derived from the bags a lot of nasty little opportunists used to carry when they came down to take advantage of the south after the Civil War.

I had no idea that those Yankees had anything to do with thinking..anything..really. think

Thanks for straightening me out on that MrRollieEyes

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Originally Posted by ConstantProcess
Aw, and so all of us Yankees are just carpetbaggers?

Oh, no, you got me backwards. All carpetbaggers are Yankees, but not all Yankees are carpetbaggers. A carpetbagging yankee is the kind who wants to make the civilized world do and say things in his backward yankee ways. And of course that encompasses the original carpetbaggers you mentioned, the opportunists who came down after the Civil War. smile


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Originally Posted by markos
Oh, no, you got me backwards. All carpetbaggers are Yankees, but not all Yankees are carpetbaggers. A carpetbagging yankee is the kind who wants to make the civilized world do and say things in his backward yankee ways. And of course that encompasses the original carpetbaggers you mentioned, the opportunists who came down after the Civil War. smile

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Oh figures, I am a Yankee, that I didn't understand.

So its like that?

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Where is Pep and her cap gun?

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Originally Posted by Pepperband
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Let the games begin... Pep, you are a bad, bad girl. smile

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Originally Posted by Pepperband
Just in time for the latest "G-BCW" MB poster .....

Originally Posted by americajin
Yes, you're exactly right Mel. Improving communication would not help her marriage, no not at all. But then again you are always right, and I guess I should just stay out of your way. Excellent suggestion that I am going to take to heart. In parting I wish to thank you for proving my point.

Mods, please delete all of my threads, I do not wish to be a disruptive influence to people in need, and so would like to eradicate my presence here.

To those of you who I have benefitted in some small or large way, I say -

Arigato gozaimasu!! Sumimasen, ikanakutewa narimasen! Sayonara.

And, we have another ....

GOODBYE CRUEL WORLD contestant !!!!!!

Clearly, NOT a winner.
Neither creative nor original.
1 on a scale of 10, TEN being BEST.

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Deleted, entirely too many angry, sensitive, and spiteful folks here. Best of luck to you all. Bye.

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Them rascals took my crown away?? dramaqueen


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Originally Posted by Pepperband
Originally Posted by Pepperband
Just in time for the latest "G-BCW" MB poster .....

Originally Posted by americajin
Yes, you're exactly right Mel. Improving communication would not help her marriage, no not at all. But then again you are always right, and I guess I should just stay out of your way. Excellent suggestion that I am going to take to heart. In parting I wish to thank you for proving my point.

Mods, please delete all of my threads, I do not wish to be a disruptive influence to people in need, and so would like to eradicate my presence here.

To those of you who I have benefitted in some small or large way, I say -

Arigato gozaimasu!! Sumimasen, ikanakutewa narimasen! Sayonara.

And, we have another ....

GOODBYE CRUEL WORLD contestant !!!!!!

Clearly, NOT a winner.
Neither creative nor original.
1 on a scale of 10, TEN being BEST.

Originally Posted by deal_with_me
Deleted, entirely too many angry, sensitive, and spiteful folks here. Best of luck to you all. Bye.

Americajin wins by a noodle. dance2

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Them rascals took my crown away?? dramaqueen

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Sheesh... all I did was to analogize improving a broken relationship that started with over 10 years of shacking up by getting married with eating cow crap until it started to taste good...

Is that really "angry and spiteful?"


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Originally Posted by HoldHerHand
Sheesh... all I did was to analogize improving a broken relationship that started with over 10 years of shacking up by getting married with eating cow crap until it started to taste good...

Is that really "angry and spiteful?"

ur so mean! crybaby


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Ladies and germs .... We have yet another GOODBYE CRUEL WORLD contestant!

I think this one is a real contender for the crown.
What say you?

Originally Posted by SugarCane
That's not me! I am prettier than that cow! (Well, I am after I've put my make-up on.)

I'm leaving - and slamming the door REALLY LOUDLY behind me!


Taken out of context, this is 10 Xs more hilarious!

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Originally Posted by Pepperband
Ladies and germs .... We have yet another GOODBYE CRUEL WORLD contestant!

I think this one is a a real contender for the crown.
What say you?

Originally Posted by SugarCane
That's not me! I am prettier than that cow! (Well, I am after I've put my make-up on.)

I'm leaving - and slamming the door REALLY LOUDLY behind me!


Taken out of context, this is 10 Xs more hilarious!

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I hear you sista!! Just barely over that loud door of that Suga person.

Geesh how rude!!! What is she from another country or sumpin sumpin? laugh


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All these posers!!! sigh


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