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Only when you are ready to quit hiding things, not try to beat the poly and ready to be COMPLETELY OPEN AND HONEST!!!! She is not safe with you if you want to hide ANYTHING. Your actions and behaviors HURT her TJ.
BS Me 47,WH 49
DS's x3 17, 10, 7
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No disclosure by WH. No EP's, no transparency, no guilt or remorse either.
Plan C DOES NOT WORK!
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I will do anything to make her feel rigth and safe. That would be wonderful. Start by telling the truth.
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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I would like to talk to my wife about taking it again but have to get the cash.I will do anything to make her feel rigth and safe.Next time I get to pick him out. This is a gem! Wayward demands to pick out the second polygraph company.  He'll tell the lies more convincingly the next time and pass the darn thing. ROTFLMAO
Recovery began 10/07;
Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.
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I would like to talk to my wife about taking it again but have to get the cash.I will do anything to make her feel rigth and safe.Next time I get to pick him out.  You're not getting my point, TJ. You can wander from polygrapher to polygrapher, looking for one to support you. You're not going to get that. If I were your wife and had knowledge that you are not being honest about inappropriate behavior with your children, I would be filing TODAY. DONE. That's all I would need to hear. Forget screwing around with consenting adults - male or female - but inappropriate behavior with your children?? The mind boggles.
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Did you schedule another one?
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Yes, I would like to hear an update as well, TJ. You've been quite vehement about your innocence, and then poof! you're gone. It causes me to wonder... 
D-Day 2-10-2009
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