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Regarding the connection between porn/masturbation and premature ejaculation:
porn/masturbation conditions a man for premature ejaculation in several ways. He is often hurried (sometimes because he is trying to escape detection). He does not have to please a woman by his activities, so typically he finishes faster, creating the habit of finishing faster. If you look at the activities involved in the exercises that are suggested to overcome PE, they are practically the opposite of what a man does with porn.
For this reason I think the porn use should be eliminated to see if it has an impact.
There is some great material on this forum posted by HoldHerHand as to what porn usage does to a man's sexual response. It's not good, and it's definitely not good if a man intends to hold down a sexual relationship with a woman.
There is also a great thread about porn by Pepperband that explains what porn does to a man's ability to carry on a pleasing sexual relationship with his wife. Heres the link to the exact spot where what is bolded in the above quote is talked about it peps thread. http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2567688&page=9
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