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Were you interested in saving your marriage? We can help you do that. But you will have to put aside your own failed ideas and follow an effective plan.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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If you are interested in saving your marriage, I would attempt a more strategic, wide spread exposure using the talking points on the thread in my signature.
What have your kids been told about the OW? Do they understand what is happening?
I would add that Plan C is usually what conflict avoiders embrace and they don't make it. They almost always end up divorced, if they are lucky. If they are unlucky, they end up stuck with the wayward and linger along in a marriage of neglect and abuse for years. It is a horrible existence.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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betrayed2, exposure isn't simply that "everyone" knows about the a. it is getting the full picture out there (without the WSs and OWs spin) and asking for support to recover the M. please read some of the threads by plan b-ers. and definitely read the exposure link in melody's sig line. even those that waffled and squeaked over doing it were finally so happily relieved when they did! the support you will find will surprise you. right now, in "everyone's" eyes, you are a willing participant in this fraud of a M. you need to make it clear this is not so.
plan c means that you will be bitter and resentful, even if the a does "fizzle out." wouldn't you rather have a happy, fulfilling M?
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