Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
| Tax-deductible Donation | Site Tour | Meet Dr. Harley | Basic Concepts | Q&A Columns | Articles | Guidance Forum

Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum

This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at mbrestored@gmail.com
Forums Calendar Active Threads
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 2 of 2 1 2
Re: Regret cheating on my wife, she wants divorce
markos #2684832 11/21/12 01:56 PM
Joined: Jan 2009
Posts: 67
G
GoingUphill Offline
Member
Offline
GoingUphill
Member
G
Joined: Jan 2009
Posts: 67
You have no clue what a horrible thing you have done to your wife. All you think about is: "Wife or OW? Which do I prefer?" As long as you remain blind, it's a good thing your wife is setting herself free.


Re: Regret cheating on my wife, she wants divorce
markos #2684928 11/21/12 07:42 PM
Joined: Nov 2012
Posts: 5
D
djvelvet Offline OP
Junior Member
OP Offline
djvelvet
Junior Member
D
Joined: Nov 2012
Posts: 5
I understand the feedbacks about my actions

Just for updates..
Had dinner with my wife last night and drank lots of beer,
She confessed she still loves me a lot and we had sex. I hope things go smoothly from here...
Re: Regret cheating on my wife, she wants divorce
djvelvet #2685009 11/22/12 04:33 AM
Joined: Sep 2011
Posts: 453
Florida
J
JenniferVoyager Offline
Member
Offline
JenniferVoyager
Member
J
Joined: Sep 2011
Posts: 453
Florida
And you still just use her up...without responding to the advice on here...such amazing arrogance!

Me, BS: 35
WxH: 36 "HAM" Hearts a mess
6yo DS (with WxH), 9 and 12yo DDs from first marriage
Discovered DH's affair in June, 2011
"I'm not having an affair, you're crazy." major gaslighting
Served with divorce papers on 2/3/12
Divorce final 7/29/2013
Living day by day, counting my blessings, loving my children
Personal Recovery well underway!
Re: Regret cheating on my wife, she wants divorce
djvelvet #2685031 11/22/12 12:08 PM
Joined: Oct 2011
Posts: 1,389
A
alis Offline
Member
Offline
alis
Member
A
Joined: Oct 2011
Posts: 1,389
Originally Posted by djvelvet
I understand the feedbacks about my actions

Just for updates..
Had dinner with my wife last night and drank lots of beer,
She confessed she still loves me a lot and we had sex. I hope things go smoothly from here...

And what did she think of your printout clean bill of health from your STD test before that happened?

Oh, I bet there wasn't one.

Your thread is all me me me me me. All you care about is yourself. "Go smoothly"? For who? You? You've got the best of both worlds, congratulations. It is a shame that your wife has not set boundaries for herself. It's not love DJ, it's a toddler not wanting to give up both toys.
Re: Regret cheating on my wife, she wants divorce
alis #2685038 11/22/12 01:21 PM
Joined: Nov 2011
Posts: 11,239
Another universe
J
Jedi_Knight Offline
Member
Offline
Jedi_Knight
Member
J
Joined: Nov 2011
Posts: 11,239
Another universe
One of the benefits of heavy alcohol consumption is poor decision making
Page 2 of 2 1 2

Moderated by  Ariel, BerlinMB, Denali, Fordude, IrishGreen, MBeliever, MBsurvivor, MBSync, McLovin, Mizar, PhoenixMB, Toujours 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Forum Search
Who's Online Now
0 members (), 462 guests, and 55 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
Bibbyryan860, Ian T, SadNewYorker, Jay Handlooms, GrenHeil
71,838 Registered Users
Forum Rules · Mark All Read Contact Us · Forum Help · Marriage Builders
Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
Feedback | Terms and Conditions | Privacy Policy | Contact Us | Site Map | Account
Copyright © 1995-2019, Marriage Builders®. All Rights Reserved.
Site Navigation
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5