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I'm sorry to say I had a very bad moment and tried to commit suicide. Ive probably ruined any chance I had. Im sorry to let everyone down.
I wish I could turn back time....
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I'm sorry to say I had a very bad moment and tried to commit suicide. Ive probably ruined any chance I had. Im sorry to let everyone down. What did you learn from that experience?
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Hospitals aren't much fun
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Hospitals aren't much fun What did you learn about yourself.
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That I need to learn how to cope and stay strong for my kids
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That I need to learn how to cope and stay strong for my kids Usually, adults learn how to cope with problems building upon his/her previous successful efforts. Do you have a substance abuse issue?
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I wish I could turn back time....
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She just had me sign a separation agreement. God please tell me there's still hope WW did not make you do anything.
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I want you to know that I just prayed for you and will continue to pray for you, your marriage and your children.
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Thank you jedi. I need all the help I can get.
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FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I wish I could turn back time....
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Any advice at this point?
I wish I could turn back time....
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Any advice at this point? Where is she at with the divorce proceedings? Have you done any Plan A acts?
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Still just separated. I give her compliments every chance I get. She just keeps finding new reasons to be pissed at me
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Still just separated. I give her compliments every chance I get. She just keeps finding new reasons to be pissed at me Well then you need to ask yourself. Am I making LB deposits by hitting her top ENs? What new things is she finding to be upset about? At least she hasn't pursued the divorce.
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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My oldest daughter said a bunch of lies on Facebook about my ww. Somehow that became my fault. Also my sister wasn't very nice to her I already talked to my sister.
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My oldest daughter said a bunch of lies on Facebook about my ww. Somehow that became my fault. Also my sister wasn't very nice to her I already talked to my sister. What did your DD say? Is she mad at your BW? Why was your sister not nice to her and what did your sister say?
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Your daughter is probably very frustrated.
Her parents are separated.
Her dad was hospitalized for attempted suicide.
Would you agree that your daughter can't get much emotional support from either you or your wife at the present time?
I suggest, have her visit a child counselor if you have not already done so.
She needs someone to talk to and work out her problems with
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My daughter is always upset with my ww. They butt heads a lot and she's always been prone to lie to get attention.
My sister was upset and jumped all over my ww via Facebook. Just a guilt trip about what she's doing to the kids. I explained to her that this was my fault and that my end goal was to reunite with my family.. my sister thinks my ww is being a drama queen.
I wish I could turn back time....
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