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He always remembered in fact that was something we made a big deal was birthdays. Needless to say Saturday my dd asked him to take her to get me gift and he did. But it was from her. My b-day was yesterday and he even spoke to me at all or even looked at me. It hurt!

Im confussed cause the day before we were talking and interacting and have been eating together and he had even been texting me everyday he worked overtime just to let me know he was and hed text me on his way home too. Things were def better since hes come home till yesterday.

Im confussed not even saying happy birthday does it mean he doesnt really care? Is he maybe just thinking we are roomates and did he not mean he loved me when he said he did? I dont know what to do. I feel like he doesnt care yet i cant go talk to him like i normally would hell just get mad and that wont get us anywhere


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Originally Posted by Alliekat
I feel like he doesnt care yet i cant go talk to him like i normally would yell just get mad and that wont get us anywhere

Well done for avoiding the lovebuster!

When you feel calm and safe, tell him how you feel. Try to make it about your feelings and not about him. Say, 'I want to feel that you love me' rather than 'you don't love me' - can you see the difference?


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