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I mistreated wife due to ocd/add and she left 11 months ago filing legal seperation. She then met a nice guy and she is having sex with him and will not give up the other family she has had to move back home and continues to look for jobs in another state and doesnt want to save marriage.
We have three kids 6,10, and 3 and they dont know what s going on. I would love to save my marriage but my roughness may have made it too late, help.
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I mistreated wife due to ocd/add and she left 11 months ago filing legal seperation. How did you mistreat her exactly? Can you be more specific?
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Up until five years ago I was abusive in all three areas. She left and in about our eighth month of seeperation met a girl started sleeping with him and I must admit he treats her right-like a lady should be treated I cant compete. The only thing is she is applying for a job in another state and with her impulse may move himand my three sons. She is angry.
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How did you mistreat her?
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Up until five years ago I was abusive in all three areas. She left and in about our eighth month of seeperation met a girl started sleeping with him and I must admit he treats her right-like a lady should be treated I cant compete. The only thing is she is applying for a job in another state and with her impulse may move himand my three sons. She is angry. In all 3 areas. Is that Physical, verbal and emotionally?
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Up until five years ago I was abusive in all three areas. She left and in about our eighth month of seeperation met a girl started sleeping with him and I must admit he treats her right-like a lady should be treated I cant compete. The only thing is she is applying for a job in another state and with her impulse may move himand my three sons. She is angry. In all 3 areas. Is that Physical, verbal and emotionally? That doesn't answer my question.
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Up until five years ago I was abusive in all three areas. She left and in about our eighth month of seeperation met a girl started sleeping with him and I must admit he treats her right-like a lady should be treated I cant compete. The only thing is she is applying for a job in another state and with her impulse may move himand my three sons. She is angry. I suggest you get an attorney and just divorce her.
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so...you want her back? has she filed for divorce? are you divorced already? i ask because it's been 11 months, though i know you said separated.
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Yes Melody Lane all three areas. I dont beleive in divorce I mean if we have to but I jsut keep praying
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Legal seperation no divorce
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Yes I want my family back. I suffered from a mental condition.
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Yes I want my family back. I suffered from a mental condition. What is the mental condition you have? So what has changed? Did you fix the mental condition?
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I mistreated wife due to ocd/add and she left 11 months ago filing legal seperation.
We have three kids 6,10, and 3 and they dont know what s going on. Where are your children? How do they have no idea what is going on if you and your wife are separated and she left?  You need to be more specific and not give vague information, if you want help. Welcome to MB.
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Ocd/add and what I mean is they have no idea about the affair or why we seperated.
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Yes I fixed the problem but she is seeing someone.
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My children are split between us.
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Ocd/add and what I mean is they have no idea about the affair or why we seperated. Let me get this straight. You beat up your wife because you have "OCD?" That is really lame. Since when does that cause someone to beat up their spouse?
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