BH, it's set up and working now. Just wondering if the data collected is removed after 3 days trial.

Sorry I was extremely busy at work last night so I didn't see your messages.

Yes it should expire after 3 days, but you should still be able to view all the data it collects. Since it's working you might want to just pay for the extended version.

Let us know how it goes.

You have to add the keylogger file(s) into the "Exclusions" list on avast antivirus. Turning it off during the install just keeps it from detecting it.

You have to manually tell it to ignore the keylogger as follows:

Open Avast, click on "Settings" in the upper right and it'll open a new window. Click on "Exclusions" on the left and enter the file names that your keylogger program is associated with. I know that eblaster keylogger gives you a list of files to input but if your program didn't, then click on the "Add" button and browse to the folder containing the keylogger program.

If that fails, then check to see if Avast is automatically deleting suspect files before prompting you. It needs to be set to "ask" so that you have the chance to ignore the file.

From the main menu, click on "Real Time Shields" on the left, then "Expert Settings" on the middle right, then "Actions" in the window that pops up. For each tab "Virus", "PUP" and "Suspicious" select "Ask" on the pulldown for "Select action to be performed when a virus is found". Make sure you check the boxes at the bottom for "Show a notification..."

Then restart and try the keylogger install again. It should find the virus and allow you to chose to ignore it.

it'll be 24hrs since installing the logger. So far this evening its only been news and politics. Then a login to a free porn site. Then the emails for screenshots stopped, so I'm guess he stopped but will confirm. What causes him to do this. Sometimes I'll do something to take are of myself and he has a look of why I'm putting in the time. At the same time before flying out of town he showed he's happy I go to the salon.

I wish I had known desktopshark wud work better than elite logger and lot cheaper.
So far it's working without adding to the exception in avast. Thankyou for encouraging me to install this.

This is discouraging now finding out he has been chatting online during the evenings I would go to sleep. But what are the chances he is complaining about his "ex" of a year and half (that when I stopped working) who cheated on him and took 6plus months to find out, right when I am watching the screen shots.
He ran CCleaner, could he know about the logger? Unless he saw a charge on my online credit card account. But I don't see an attempt to login to the logger showing.

I am so glad I got the paid version today. There was a good reason for disabling the browser history for days or weeks. What needs to be done to confront him?

Don't do anything yet. Note all the passwords and keep watching.

Lw I can't believe this happening. He has been leaving from 6.30am to 4.45pm since last week. I suspected his brother has him drop and pick up his kids to school as I heard their nanny would leave.
But in between that time I don't know where he goes. I thought he would be w his mother at his brother's place during the day last I checked on Friday. Now I'll have to add the keylogger on his phone while he take a shower in 3 minutes.

It feels like something could die here.
Nothing about desktoplogger in on my creditcard account.

Lw How long to I watch his chats? He has lastnight's saved in his account. Please guide me on the plan.

Wearld, what is on the chat that troubles you? Did you put the spyware on his phone? Does it have a GPS on it, because you do need to have a GPS tracker on him.

Can you afford to hire a PI?

Melody lane
Not sure what he is up to from two days of watching. I stepped out and stayed at the bookstore till 9pm. That's when he logged in to a site for women. The strangest part is he has a female id and similar email id he is using. Is he trying to get his emotional needs at the same time trying to convince some middle aged woman to change her sexual preference? I think he wud be only able to tell.
From one day's watching I saw he was sharing w a woman that s(he) was mentally and emotionally abused. And I thought he was withdrawing for family reasons. He also said he does not want to let me win.
I would be uncomfortable sharing this w family to get help. I'll check on the GPS today if not on the phone, where can it be purchased.
I wish this were a dream from last night. I wasn't sure if I should behave as I know nothing.

Just keep watching him until you find out what he is doing. Be very discreet. So far, you don't really know what he is doing. It is very strange.

If you are in the US, you can install eblaster or flexispy on his phone. Eblaster and some models of flexispy have built in GPS. If he has an Iphone, there is a way you can turn on the GPS and access it from your computer. OR you can go zoombak at bestbuy and put it in his car.

He was there with his mother but his car was in elsewhere in garage or somewhere. He came outside to get the mail.
He continues his chatting. At what point should I be acting?

When you find out what he is doing.

Do you mean what else he is doing other than Internet sex chatting? The Internet is such an easy way to divert a bored person. I saw the first message on the logger and had to come out of the bedroom to the sofa he is on with the computer. He still sent one message.
How will this work. I have always wanted my sleep, especially when working. When I sit where can see most of the computer screen, his surfing has stopped to do virus scand and he is leaning bored or flipping the tv channels.
I hate the tv but I sit here and even the constant chatter noise bothers me.
I have trouble responding to the tv. What need does it satisfy for him? If I couldn't deal w a headache 15 hours UA could be reached by tv.
He won't express his needs to me but prefer talking to a different woman since yesterday. Maybe he is trying to form a bond with them. I can't believe he had signed for this site 3 weeks ago, when I sat hurt sulking in the bedroom. He uses the same words we use to when chatting online.
I still don't know what to talk to him because another conflict will start within days. This time is different though after the keylogger and my Internet enabled phone. Without the phone or a 2nd laptop he did what he wanted. Then he had an AO last month where the cd drive of the laptop broke. I need strength to deal with all these issues. I haven't fixing any of these before. It gets more complicated already in life.
I feel he doesn't want to talk to me because as he said yesterday he doesn't want me to win.
When I am in presence in the car or like now he will say something, sometimes really loudly to some discussion or someone on the radio or tv. I thought I should just ignore it.

If I do all of the home chores there would be no DS, forget appreciation. When I am cleaning or organizing in the room, he would be on the computer. I am disgusted thinking about how many times he did what he did today and would have gone full fledged if I didn't come out of the bedroom. That's the only thing that keeps its attention and interest.
Will post for a prayer request.

The minute I come to sleep he is back to the women's site. He is addicted. Babysitting won't help him. Who should I be protecting myself or marriage. Myself I think but I'm don't have so much patience.

Put together a Plan and it will help you figure things out.

Now that you know he's trolling for women, you need to find out if he's meeting this women.

Do you have spyware with GPS on his phone? You need to figure out how deep this is so you can follow a Plan.

Read this also.
Carrot and Stick of Plan A

I need help figuring out who to share with first and if i'll need to. Im not comfortable his older brother would understand or be trustworthy. He has enough of his own problems.

I barely am in the same room as him or his phone. I remember being reluctant before installing the logger on the computer.

He is starting to delete his instant messages. The logger didnt accept the subscribed activation code. Just added to avast exceptions but not sure yet. Emailed support.

For now just share with us. You do not yet know what you are dealing with. You need to find out whether he is just sexting on line or whether he is having an affair. You need to be very secretive for now and gather information. Mel suggested a PI - did you understand that suggestion and can you do this?

Until we know what exactly he is up to, it is going to be impossible to know what the next steps should be. The fact that he is deleting IMs is strongly suggestive of inappropriate behaviour.