Ok, "mum" plus "housing authority" speaks to me of.....Great Britain?
Where you live is important to us in terms of the legal strategies available to you.
Now, if she does not have paying employment, what is the source of funds in her bank account? As in, cut her off if you can!
She doesn't really speak to her brothers much so I doubt they will have much influence on her, but I told them all the same.
Sisters-in-law?
What have you done on POSOM's side of this cess-pool?
Sorry, yes I am in the UK.
She currently has no money other than the �100 I gave her last week and I only did that as I was in a very weak and emotional position then. She is living at her parents and they are providing her with food, etc for now, amd they also provide for our daughter when she stays there.
The only income she has is the child benefit and some other benfit she can claim for being a single parent and some for her illness. It doesnt amount to much though and she has said that she is going to look for a job.
With regards to POSOM, I have spoken to his ex about it all, she is concerned about how this is affecting their children, but says she doesnt want to get too involved in his personal life. I have been to his house as I know where he lives but he is always at work, and I fear that if I see him right now, then I will do something I regret and I wont risk anything that can harm me with regards to DD6.
Like I say, I have sewn the seeds with plan A, but I now feel that this wont work and I will have to switch to plan B for my own strength and sanity.