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Re: Request for advice after the affair ends
NotDoneYet #2713792 03/20/13 11:51 AM
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Have you thought of emailing the Harleys?

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Re: Request for advice after the affair ends
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I was thinking you might get her to talk to the Harleys with you as well. Worth a shot.

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Re: Request for advice after the affair ends
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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Originally Posted by NotDoneYet
She's declared that there will be me peace between us until the divorce is finalized.

When you pick up the boys tell them that their mother has decided to get a divorce so she can have affair with OM. Tell your wife she can leave if she wants to separate. You will allow her to see the boys but will not permit them to be with OM. Also advise her that there will not be any peace; you will not be her "friend" or speak to her if this goes to divorce. It is real important that you make this very clear because she believes you will cooperate ith her plan to replace you. You must give her second thoughts.

And DO NOT leave your home.

Document everything because even in no fault states they take adultery into account when deciding custody.

I am reading this a day late. I hope you have done this.
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