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Originally Posted by vincentjbl
thank you good night
We are here for you vincent.

You're doing the best thing for your marriage.


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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Originally Posted by vincentjbl
I love everything you said. I will let you know how it worked? Billboard. I will find one tomorrow I hope there not expensive.

I was kidding about the billboard!! grinBut you should do the equivalent of putting it on a billboard. Inform all your friends and family members about her affair with POSOM. START WITH the OM's wife, though.

Does this piece of crap have a facebook page?


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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Originally Posted by vincentjbl
I love everything you said. I will let you know how it worked? Billboard. I will find one tomorrow I hope there not expensive.

I was kidding about the billboard!! grinBut you should do the equivalent of putting it on a billboard. Inform all your friends and family members about her affair with POSOM. START WITH the OM's wife, though.

Does this piece of crap have a facebook page?
Yes he does and Vincent has access to it. We've told him to copy and save all the OM's contacts.

Vincent did make a Facebook page and invited 300 of OW and OM's co-workers and friends. So some of the supervisors were on there, but Vincent has not talked to OM's BW or properly done a workplace exposure.


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Did you say that her mother lives with you? Does she know that her daughter wants an open marriage? Have you exposed to her mother?


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Vincent,

You need to go up the chain of command at the VA hospital, I'm not sure if the VA hospital is subject to oversight by the inspector general. A cursory look at the link below makes it seem like they are. If you know of other affairs in her workplace you need to bring these to light.

http://www.va.gov/oig/hotline/

Get all of your information in order, save off all evidence you have, go silent, do not tip off your WW or OM.

When you expose, do it completely, suddenly and without warning or threats.

Your WW is living the life of a teenager with a Mother and Father at home, and a school like social environment at work complete with horny adolescent minded adults.

There is no chance you will get any affection from WW as long as she is in an environment where she accepts and encourages endless admiration and pursuit of coworkers.

God Bless
Gamma

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