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Originally Posted by COMM58
I filed 60 days later and received divorce. He wouldnt sign. I got it after another 30 days.

Please, just to be clear, you are already divorced?

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Hes the one who left. He should be making attempts/moves? Correct?

Questions:

1. What was your marriage like before the affair?

2. Were there other affairs?

3. Addictions such as porn or gambling?

4. Has WH ever been abusive towards you?

5. Were either of you ever married before?

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Originally Posted by COMM58
This forum is not for me. Im not hanging on every word could care less

OKey-dokey. crazy

We follow your lead and show the same interest in your marriage that you show. Not much.

Best of luck.
God Bless.

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Whatever...Is that rude enough for you!

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Anybody want fries with that? laugh

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Wow. That was very rude and uncalled for. When you are ready for help with your marriage the forum will be here. Some posters might leave you alone after that little outburst. I wish you luck in your marriage. Never had a burger from thee are they good?

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This is a drive-thru .... TranquilDark.
What's your order?

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Lol. I prefer turkey burgers with jalape�os and BBQ sauce.

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Originally Posted by TranquilDark
Lol. I prefer turkey burgers with jalape�os and BBQ sauce.

rotflmao

Okey-Dokey .... TD, you're in the wrong drive-thru line!!!!

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Ok um, I'll take a heart attack burger, greasy fries, a shake and a diet coke cause I'm watching figure.

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Originally Posted by Pepperband
We follow your lead and show the same interest in your marriage that you show. Not much.

My feelings exactly. If she is too lazy to give complete information, I don't have any time for her.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
My feelings exactly.

Welcome to In & Out, Mel. May I take your order?

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Originally Posted by Pepperband
Originally Posted by MelodyLane
My feelings exactly.

Welcome to In & Out, Mel. May I take your order?

Can I have the low carb burger, please Madam? Mustard all the way! laugh And a DIET PEPSI!


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Oh great, I've not yet had lunch and a wild drive through appears.

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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
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My feelings exactly.

Welcome to In & Out, Mel. May I take your order?

Can I have the low carb burger, please Madam? Mustard all the way! laugh And a PEPSI!

Cheese on the burger?

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Trying to gain weight, so strawberry shake, fries, and a double cheeseburger. Mmm, calories.

That aside, you can't just sit there and do nothing about it (if you are even still reading this).

(A wild drive through appears...I will attempt to not show my age by making a Pokemon joke...)


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
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Originally Posted by karmasrose
(A wild drive through appears...I will attempt to not show my age by making a Pokemon joke...)

Too late. Make the joke.

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A wild DRIVE THROUGH appears!

A wild DRIVE THROUGH uses DR PEPPER!

BLACK's defense drops sharply!

A wild DRIVE THROUGH uses DOUBLE CHEESEBURGER!

It's super effective!

BLACK uses $20 BILL!

It's not very effective...

(Black&White2 being the latest games, I used "black" as a name)

Now I will go back to my blankie and playpen as the young one I am. stickout

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One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
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rotflmao

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I'll take a double-double with a large diet coke... Do you have onion rings? Can I substitute those for the fries?

Ok, good. That's all.

And don't you DARE look at me funny - I did say diet, I don't need an additional 300 calories and diet tastes just FINE!


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"Smart people believe weird things because they are skilled at defending beliefs they arrived at for non-smart reasons." - Michael Shermer

"Fair speech may hide a foul heart." - Samwise Gamgee LOTR
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