|
|
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 12,357
Member
|
Member
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 12,357 |
Do you take special requests??  I would like to hear Hair of the Dog by Nazareth, please SIR!  Dang, that's a mighty fine song. I wouldn't mind hearing that one, myself. 
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 |
What about Highway to Hell by AC/DC??
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: May 2013
Posts: 513
Member
|
|
OP
Member
Joined: May 2013
Posts: 513 |
She won't call the police. I know her. Even how she is now, I still know she won't.
Me: BH, 28
WW, 26
Married September 2005
D-Day: April 7, 2013
A started in February, 2013, and is ongoing
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 |
Do you take special requests?? I would like to hear Hair of the Dog by Nazareth, please SIR! Dang, that's a mighty fine song. I wouldn't mind hearing that one, myself. I will sang it for ya, hun!! Heart breaker, soul shaker Ive been told about you Steamroller, midnight stroller What they've been saying must be true Bridge: Red hot mama Velvet charmer Times come to pay your dues Chorus: Now you're messin with a A son of a b**** Now you're messin with a son of a b**** Now you're messin with a A son of a b**** Now you're messin with a son of a b**** Talkin jivey, poison ivy You aint gonna cling to me Man taker, born faker I aint so blind I can't see
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 12,357
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 12,357 |
If they ask you to leave to "keep the peace" tell them that you would like to cooperate but you are not willing to leave your home. And let them know that she has been storming through the house, threatening to leave. Tell them that you would like her to stay, but she seems determined to leave. All in a very calm voice.
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 |
She won't call the police. I know her. Even how she is now, I still know she won't. I just want to explain what you are dealing with right now. You are the person who storms into the crackhouse and interrupts the crack smoking session. The crack heads are FURIOUS! That is all that is happening here. That is why we can laugh. We know it is pure fogbabble that stems from her affair high. You are interfering in her affair in a HUGE WAY. And that is GOOD.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: May 2013
Posts: 513
Member
|
|
OP
Member
Joined: May 2013
Posts: 513 |
I just want to tell her how ridiculous she is being. Like, you're upset with me for not wanting you to cheat on me in my house? Really?
Me: BH, 28
WW, 26
Married September 2005
D-Day: April 7, 2013
A started in February, 2013, and is ongoing
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: May 2013
Posts: 513
Member
|
|
OP
Member
Joined: May 2013
Posts: 513 |
I guess you're right melody. I'm more concerned about her trying to do something more malicious though.
Me: BH, 28
WW, 26
Married September 2005
D-Day: April 7, 2013
A started in February, 2013, and is ongoing
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 |
You don't like old people music?? 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: May 2013
Posts: 513
Member
|
|
OP
Member
Joined: May 2013
Posts: 513 |
So she is obviously going to be leaving tonight. So what is my next step?
edit: nevermind, next step is wait for divorce papers, then tell her all that stuff you told me to tell her
edit 2: With her this furious - and she will be furious for a good while about this one - should I invite her to my party this saturday?
Last edited by OddJob123; 05/06/13 08:04 PM.
Me: BH, 28
WW, 26
Married September 2005
D-Day: April 7, 2013
A started in February, 2013, and is ongoing
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 12,357
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 12,357 |
She won't call the police. I know her. Even how she is now, I still know she won't. Very good. Some waywards get so whacked out that they believe their spouse doesn't belong in their own home. Part of her addiction requires her to have a swingin' single's pad. You've removed that. Very good. That will force a little reality into her fantasy.
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Mar 2010
Posts: 6,352
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Mar 2010
Posts: 6,352 |
NOOOOOO!
Jame Bond would not do that! He'd mix a martini, adjust his tuxedo tie, and be an absolute PICTURE of suave.
BE James Bond!
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 |
I guess you're right melody. I'm more concerned about her trying to do something more malicious though. What do you think she would do? Is your cousin there? Did your cousin know that her OM was staying there?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 |
NOOOOOO!
Jame Bond would not do that! He'd mix a martini, adjust his tuxedo tie, and be an absolute PICTURE of suave.
BE James Bond! Does James Bond not like AC/DC?? 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: May 2013
Posts: 513
Member
|
|
OP
Member
Joined: May 2013
Posts: 513 |
Yes cousin knew about it. He was just trying to stay out of it. It was incredibly awkward for him. He is going to be grateful that she is gone.
And I'm just a little worried about her trying to screw my financially somehow. I mean, we have separate bank accounts now, but some of our loans, like her car loan, her school loan etc are under both our names, and I'm not sure if she transferred the auto-payments to her bank account yet or not.
Last edited by OddJob123; 05/06/13 08:07 PM.
Me: BH, 28
WW, 26
Married September 2005
D-Day: April 7, 2013
A started in February, 2013, and is ongoing
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 |
NOOOOOO!
Jame Bond would not do that! He'd mix a martini, adjust his tuxedo tie, and be an absolute PICTURE of suave.
BE James Bond! He's 28!! He doesn't know what a martini is!!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Mar 2010
Posts: 6,352
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Mar 2010
Posts: 6,352 |
So many notes flying in - I was addressing OJ's note proposing being whiny and needy.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 |
edit 2: With her this furious - and she will be furious for a good while about this one - should I invite her to my party this saturday? Absolutely!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 12,357
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 12,357 |
Do you take special requests?? I would like to hear Hair of the Dog by Nazareth, please SIR! Dang, that's a mighty fine song. I wouldn't mind hearing that one, myself. I will sang it for ya, hun!! Heart breaker, soul shaker Ive been told about you Steamroller, midnight stroller What they've been saying must be true Bridge: Red hot mama Velvet charmer Times come to pay your dues Chorus: Now you're messin with a A son of a b**** Now you're messin with a son of a b**** Now you're messin with a A son of a b**** Now you're messin with a son of a b**** Talkin jivey, poison ivy You aint gonna cling to me Man taker, born faker I aint so blind I can't see Wahoo! My college kids are home for the summer - I'm singing and embarrassing them to death - love it!
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Nov 2010
Posts: 746
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Nov 2010
Posts: 746 |
NOOOOOO!
Jame Bond would not do that! He'd mix a martini, adjust his tuxedo tie, and be an absolute PICTURE of suave.
BE James Bond! He's 28!! He doesn't know what a martini is!! Don't insult the young folk here. LOL I'm betting you make Geritol Martini's!
Me: 30
Him: 39
Together 5 years
Married the very best man in the world 04/06/2013 after being common law for too long. I'm a lucky woman.
7 Cats - Viscount Ashley of Leftfield, Pawkie Petunia, The Timinator, Leo the Lionheart, Fruit Snack, Cloud, and Barret
And our very lucky pony, Starbucks
|
|
|
Moderated by Ariel, BerlinMB, Denali, Fordude, IrishGreen, MBeliever, MBsurvivor, MBSync, McLovin, Mizar, PhoenixMB, Toujours
|
0 members (),
333
guests, and
76
robots. |
|
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
Forums67
Topics133,622
Posts2,323,477
Members71,918
| |
Most Online3,185
Jan 27th, 2020
|
|
|
|
