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He blocked me so I cant see who his family is...I know a couple of his friends from work but...He has agreed to cut the affair and his immediate supervisor knows about it... So I was saving the all out blitz at work incase he doesn't hold to his word. Its kinda my last shot... I think I have him scared and tired of the baggage anyway. No, he is not scared of you at all. He has you completely fooled. You handed your enemy your battle plan so he now has the advantage here. You had him by the balls but you forfeited that advanatge by handing over your battle plan. He simply took the affair further underground and has your promise you won't expose him at work. That way, he is free to carry on his affair with your wife. All he had to do was tell his supervisor that you "are a jealous lunatic who believes everyone is chasing his wife. She has left the marriage because of other problems and he is angry." I guarantee you that they are spinning the story with you starring as the NUT. The best thing you can do is hire a PI to tail your wife for a couple of days and get the evidence. THEN do a proper exposure, with evidence, and kill this affair. What kind of evidence do you have now of the affair?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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He has agreed to cut the affair and his immediate supervisor knows about it... His supervisor was told WHAT by WHOM?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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She has admitted it to people...I have Facebook messages with her admitting to it and text messages as well.
I'm not sure exactly how his supervisor knows but I know she does and has talked to him about it. I know I called HR and asked about their policy on workplace affairs between supervisors and employees...
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But then what do I do after I expose it to their workplace? Just sit and wait?
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But then what do I do after I expose it to their workplace? Just sit and wait? I would expose the affair properly, to the workplace, her family and friends. Expose it to everyone. Go read my exposure thread for letter suggestions and best practices. After you expose the affair you could eat some pie.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Does the OM have a Facebook page? If so, I would expose to his Facebook friends.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I did call human resources and asked them about their policy on workplace affairs and apparently it got back to his boss. She pulled him aside and he agreed to stop...then I talked to him and he told me he wasnt going to be involved anymore and he would tell her the same. So, his workplace does know about it but it isn't full blown out in the open to everyone who works there. I said that was ok but if it continues I will expose him to everyone there that he is a predator that is preying on a married woman...
Your wife is in a full-blown affair & has moved out -- dude, this is the equivalent of enemy-inside-the-wire, barbarians-over-the-walls, butchering-the-women-&-children time -- and you're tipping your hand to the other side while saving the best arrow in your quiver for when things get ... worse?
C'mon, hubby, get smart: If you want to try to save this marriage, you've got to get them apart, and so you need to expose it at work -- not on their terms, but on yours, with no more warnings or negotiations. The impact might be a lot lessened now, but you're not playing with a strong hand anymore, anyway. Go down fighting for your marriage, or just get a lawyer & get the best deal you can for yourself, but doing either one halfway likely won't get you where you want to be.
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