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He said he thought the MB program is good, but that there are some things that are too rigorous, and either don't apply to us, or we can elect to not do them. Explain to him that rigorously following this program is one of your conditions for reconciliation, and that if he choose to "elect not to follow" certain parts, you won't continue with reconciliation.
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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Susie and Markos;
Thanks, I will be spending tonight's "date night" w/ Taffy discussing this...
Me: BW, 57 fWH: 63 (Taffy1) Serial cheater
Presently on the Recovery Road, in the Online program.
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I don't understand the situation with SH. When xWH and I coached with him, he had me tell xWH what I wanted in addition to him coming up with his own EPs. One of the EPs was no overnights apart.
Just follow what Dr Harley says -- like Prisca said, this is his program.
It doesn't matter what Taffy thinks or wants regarding EPs. They are not negotiable and he has been given the wrong idea about this so it's time to set him straight. SusieQ; [T/j; I can't read your name w/out humming the song..... ] I am going to do the EP list for tonight w/ Taffy. I emailed Dr. Harley on the private forum withbome specifics and will post his response. I guess it is no surprise that I have not had much increase in romantic love feelings for Taffy.
Me: BW, 57 fWH: 63 (Taffy1) Serial cheater
Presently on the Recovery Road, in the Online program.
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