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Originally Posted by Viscountess
Brainy!

We have a winner. laugh

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Mel, you certainly deserve a break from posting. I hope you are well and everything is OK with you and your family.

You have been a guiding light for many people and have helped us all come to terms with infidelity, gain an understanding of MB principles and helped us heal. Thank you for your time, advice, support and encouragement. You have helped many BS to recover personally and many fortunate to recover their marriages.

We all look forward to your return.

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Me 46yrs
WH 46yrs "Isildur"
Married: 22yrs 8mths
DS 9yrs;DD 19yrs;DS 21yrs
Bomb drop:marriage not working don't know if ILY 12.11.11
DD:26.11.11
WH moves to OW house 28.11.11
Formal MB Plan A 14.4.12
Plan B 27.4.12
D:20.7.14

"There are moments in life that make us & set the course of who we become. Sometimes they're little & subtle,sometimes they're big & we never saw them coming. No one asks for their life to change, but it does. It's what we do afterwards that counts & we find out who we are."
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Originally Posted by happyfuture66
We all look forward to your return.

Yes!

Come back, MelodyLane. We still need you!


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My friend is a volunteer cop and I told him about ML missing and he did some detective work and said she was spotted at a tourist location in South America.
But the sighting is unconfirmed.

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Originally Posted by Jedi_Knight
My friend is a volunteer cop and I told him about ML missing and he did some detective work and said she was spotted at a tourist location in South America.
But the sighting is unconfirmed.
Haha.

I hope she comes back soon!!!

WE NEED YOU MELODYLANE!!!!!!


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To the tune of "Car 54, where are you?":

There�s a posting on the board
That has started one big fight
There�s a jam of forum questions
That is backed up clean out of sight
All complain �It isn�t fair�
Harley�s pulling out his hair

MelodyLane, where are you?


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Originally Posted by Jedi_Knight
My friend is a volunteer cop and I told him about ML missing and he did some detective work and said she was spotted at a tourist location in South America.
But the sighting is unconfirmed.

You goofball!! rotflmao There are no starbucks in South America! sigh

Glad to see you all again. Thank you for your kind words. You have been missed! hug


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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I thought there was a smell of gun smoke around here...!


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Originally Posted by SugarCane
I thought there was a smell of gun smoke around here...!

How would a silly foreigner know that smell?? MrRollieEyes That is AQUANET! grin


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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Originally Posted by Jedi_Knight
My friend is a volunteer cop and I told him about ML missing and he did some detective work and said she was spotted at a tourist location in South America.
But the sighting is unconfirmed.

You goofball!! rotflmao There are no starbucks in South America! sigh

Glad to see you all again. Thank you for your kind words. You have been missed! hug

Hey!

Welcome back, stranger!


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Welcome back, it's good to see you.


Me 46yrs
WH 46yrs "Isildur"
Married: 22yrs 8mths
DS 9yrs;DD 19yrs;DS 21yrs
Bomb drop:marriage not working don't know if ILY 12.11.11
DD:26.11.11
WH moves to OW house 28.11.11
Formal MB Plan A 14.4.12
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D:20.7.14

"There are moments in life that make us & set the course of who we become. Sometimes they're little & subtle,sometimes they're big & we never saw them coming. No one asks for their life to change, but it does. It's what we do afterwards that counts & we find out who we are."
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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Originally Posted by SugarCane
I thought there was a smell of gun smoke around here...!

How would a silly foreigner know that smell?? MrRollieEyes That is AQUANET! grin
WooHoo welcome back.

I think SugarCane thought Aquanet is gun smoke!!!


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Thanks Happyfuture and Brainy! hug


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Aquanet?! Do they still make that stuff?

No better thing to stop anything in it's tracks, maybe even waywards! stickout


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Originally Posted by LifetimeLearner
Aquanet?! Do they still make that stuff?

No better thing to stop anything in it's tracks, maybe even waywards! stickout

It will even stop a bullet!! grin


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Welcome back Mel.

I hope you are doing well and that the time away was good for you.


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Thank you, MrAlias. I smile when I see your name. smile


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She got her Colts back from the smith.

So the pistol whipping will continue until the morale improves.

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Originally Posted by TheRoad
So the pistol whipping will continue until the morale improves.

[Linked Image from i39.photobucket.com] Darn tootin!! grin


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We here are all SOOOOOO happy to see you walk back into our lives, we jumped for joy!



(Now, someone should get "meowt" of here quickly!)

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