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That's why you should stick to one thread.
NOTIFY the MODS and have your threads merged.
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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no shes not. I did not see anywhere in her post that they were in agreement on this or it was for fasting and prayer. She is allowing her husband to be tempted by satan because she won't fulfill her wifely duties. I have no idea what you are talking about. Her husband wants romance and passion. So does she. That is what she is trying to do here.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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"My husband says he doesn't understand how he can have the feelings he does for me but yet I am the one who did wrong and he has to REBUILD those feelings for me."
It is because you have done a good job of meeting his needs and he has not done a good job of meeting your needs. That is what we can teach him.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Thank you for posting to me. I am going to print this off and take it to him and ask him to read tonite. I told him today that I could only control me and that if he chose to leave or file for divorce that I could only refuse to sign the papers. Our state requires both parties to sign for a no fault divorce.
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