Originally Posted by Dvdman
Seems like we are becoming more distant lately so I will try anything.
Anything EXCEPT consider her feelings about meeting your family...

You may not see this now, but in a few more years her resentment will have built, and she'll walk out. You'll beg for her return, tear out your hair and wonder, "what went wrong?!"

You might want to read some of the threads on this forum by men who have lost their wives after years of walking over their feelings. It's pretty heart-breaking.

In the meantime, a great first step would be to apologize for gaining at her expense, and to promise to never do ANYTHING again without BOTH of your enthusiastic agreement. It's called POJA, and it's what will save you from the fate of those other men.

"When you love someone, all your saved up wishes start coming out."
Elizabeth Bowen

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