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I agree with what has been posted. For me, sex is an expression of my love. A man has to earn his way there! Also, once I have sex, I am really attached. So I'm not eager to go there unless I am in a committed relationship.
In my experience I found that in order to have a fulfilling sex life, I needed my EN met, <<<EDIT>>>
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So I'm not eager to go there unless I am in a committed relationship.
Committed relationship would mean marriage.
In a typical relationship where the romantic love threshold is breached in the love bank, committed or not, both partners are likely to feel enthusiastic about sexual relations. But as long as the partners are reserving the right to back away, the relationship is not yet committed.
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So I'm not eager to go there unless I am in a committed relationship.
Committed relationship would mean marriage.
In a typical relationship where the romantic love threshold is breached in the love bank, committed or not, both partners are likely to feel enthusiastic about sexual relations. But as long as the partners are reserving the right to back away, the relationship is not yet committed.
Well put, Marcos! The operative word, of course is...
