Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Originally Posted by samdew9
She has volunteered the info when he has come into the store that she works at. But she does not talk to him at all.

Sorry, but you are dead in the water. If you refuse to do anything to save your marriage you might as well get divorced now and save yourself several more years of an ongoing affair.

I give your marriage no hope whatsoever if you won't take the advice. Half measures will avail you nothing.
Unless this affair is exposed and you move away from this town, you are dooming your marriage. You think that moving away and getting new jobs is tough? Have you assessed the real cost of your present path? Divorce is not cheap. Neither is the cost of a crippled marriage.

We moved over 500 miles to get away from the location of my wife's affair. In our case, NC was securely in place in our old location. We could have stayed, but we moved anyway. It is impossible to place a value on the peace of mind you can enjoy when you rid yourself of all the worry that goes with living in the affair town.

me-65
wife-61
married for 40 years
DS - 38, autistic, lives at home
DD - 37, married and on her own
DS - 32, still living with us