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I am not for sure where he lives, but do have Facebook accounts yes!
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So try to contact through Facebook, I deleted his phone number when I had it, so I wouldn't go back to it again!!
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So try to contact through Facebook, I deleted his phone number when I had it, so I wouldn't go back to it again!! if he ever talked to you on cell, you should be able to find his number online through your cell carrier.
Me: BW, 36; WH: 37
Married 14 years
DD: 4yr, DS: 8 month
DD: 11/24/2013
Plan A (not properly done) since DD. Exposure to OW's friend and work on 03/25/2014. Lots of LBs.
Plan B (w/ MIL lives w/ me): started 4/4/2014. Exposed WH to most of our friends in early 05/2014.
Plan A before moving to CA as suggested by Dr Harley started 6/8/14.
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No it was a text just one
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Find out more about him. You have his name, right?
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I bet they are interacting on Facebook.
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I'm sure should I try to message on there?
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No it was a text just one if it's sms, not imessage, you still can find the number through online account, under data/text.
Me: BW, 36; WH: 37
Married 14 years
DD: 4yr, DS: 8 month
DD: 11/24/2013
Plan A (not properly done) since DD. Exposure to OW's friend and work on 03/25/2014. Lots of LBs.
Plan B (w/ MIL lives w/ me): started 4/4/2014. Exposed WH to most of our friends in early 05/2014.
Plan A before moving to CA as suggested by Dr Harley started 6/8/14.
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Yes I know more about him, single, teacher, debate club leader, been on his Facebook before? Not a friend but still have access to some of it?
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So you are saying I should try to call him?
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So you are saying I should try to call him? oh, i'm just trying to help you to gather as much info as possible. i'm newbie here too, and i'm in no position to give you advice though (i don't wanna mislead you). wait for the vets to weigh in.
Me: BW, 36; WH: 37
Married 14 years
DD: 4yr, DS: 8 month
DD: 11/24/2013
Plan A (not properly done) since DD. Exposure to OW's friend and work on 03/25/2014. Lots of LBs.
Plan B (w/ MIL lives w/ me): started 4/4/2014. Exposed WH to most of our friends in early 05/2014.
Plan A before moving to CA as suggested by Dr Harley started 6/8/14.
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Can you get into your wife's Facebook account?
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You need to get a keylogger on your home computer/s ASAP!
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I am confused, do you know this POSOM's full name?
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I would get your snooping into place before you confront him.
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Yes I know more about him, single, teacher, debate club leader, been on his Facebook before? Not a friend but still have access to some of it? Sorry, missed this. I would take screenshots of his FB friends list for safekeeping....for later. Please do not tell your W of any of these plans (snooping, confronting OM, finding his FB page, etc).
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is your W's phone password locked? What kind of phone is it? And do you have access to the phone records?
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We are separated at the time. So most of this stuff, is a no go. Don't really know where to go from here? If I can't access anything not much snooping to do. I have access to phone bill, but wont do much good without other stuff to confront with.
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We are separated at the time. So most of this stuff, is a no go. Don't really know where to go from here? If I can't access anything not much snooping to do. I have access to phone bill, but wont do much good without other stuff to confront with. Can you hire a PI?
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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