Originally Posted by AggieInDisbelief
Quick update: I have searched everywhere on her phone, our computer and her iPad and I find nothing that even hints at an affair. More later...


Those are three things. That is not even close to being 'everywhere'.

Besides which even the dumbest wayward knows how to delete stuff unless you have spyware in place. A VAR to pick up phone calls she is making in secret might work.

It's likely she has a phone you don't even know about kept in her car etc.

People having affairs don't leave clues lying around. Since her affair is being carried on away from the home you will very likely need a PI. That should be your first priority after getting a recorder on your person to protect yourself from abuse claims. How is that coming along?



Last edited by indiegirl; 07/09/14 03:14 PM.
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