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Originally Posted by kstockett
I'm all for contacting them. I'm guessing I get one question. what do you think is the most important one?

Actually, you get several questions. Give all your details in the email and include what questions you'd like to ask on the show.


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Gamma- lack of evidence. Believe me, we tried.
I'm going to email in...

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kstockett,

Does the rapist still live within 50 miles of your house? If so your H must be triggered by this on a daily if not hourly basis. This is possibly an even more compelling reason to move than the two OW!

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No, he lives 8 hours away in a different state..
And really? I'm the one who was raped, although hubby feels it terribly too I know.

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Originally Posted by kstockett
i just don't worry about this.
I worry about me triggering and if it's worth it to stay....

He either gets it or he doesn't. He does it again and I'm out. he knows I would hire a PI if I ever need to.

This is a typical example of why Dr. Harley encourages couples recovering from affairs to move out of state

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Originally Posted by kstockett
I'm going to email in...

Let us know when you hear back. Will your WH talk with Dr. Harley?


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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



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