Originally Posted by lace40
Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Originally Posted by lace40
What am I supposed to do if my husband won't quit cheating with porn? I want to leave, but I was stupid enough to be a mom/housewife. Our kids are 20/17, and I've only done volunteer work.
Then you should separate until he stops his abusive behaviour. Dr. Harley would recommend a separation until he stops. He would still need to provide financially. Have you started to put some money aside?

Have you emailed Dr Harley?

This is one thing I don't think he'll stop. It's been an ongoing issue. I haven't put money aside, but he wouldn't stop me from our savings. I haven't emailed Dr Harley; I wouldn't even know what to say.

Dr. Harley will likely advise you to start working on a plan to separate. Could you live with relatives? Can you start working on your education,whether college or a vocational school?

He often recommends training in accounting/bookkeeping/business or in nursing, because both tracks can lead to a career that will make you enough money to support yourself.


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