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Okay I will happily change my phone number. I have been tested for STDs months ago. I cannot stop working nights as we have two daughters in college. Trust me I would love to but college will not pay for itself. I should be able to procure new employment in 18 months.
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Okay I will happily change my phone number. I have been tested for STDs months ago. I cannot stop working nights as we have two daughters in college. Trust me I would love to but college will not pay for itself. I should be able to procure new employment in 18 months. Why are you logged on as your BH? When will you change all contact information? Why can't you get a day job?
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Okay I will happily change my phone number. I have been tested for STDs months ago. I cannot stop working nights as we have two daughters in college. Trust me I would love to but college will not pay for itself. I should be able to procure new employment in 18 months. Why can't you get a day job? Most people who have children in college have day jobs.
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Babies come at all hours of the day and night melody. Sorry I was talking on my husbands iPad as we were encouraged to both respond.
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Babies come at all hours of the day and night melody. I don't know what this means.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Babies come at all hours of the day and night melody. And you could be the midwife who works the day shift. Surely you're not saying that all midwives work night shift? Who deals with the daytime babies?
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I am a labor nurse melody. You talk out both sides of your mouth melody since yesterday I deserved to be on cheaterville and today no one told my husband to do that. Get your story straight.
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Oh my word obviously no nurses here. It's a twenty four hour job. You can talk mb I know nursing. Been doing it for twenty years.
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I am a labor nurse melody. You talk out both sides of your mouth melody since yesterday I deserved to be on cheaterville and today no one told my husband to do that. Get your story straight. You know, folks aren't going to help you if you are snotty, Marie. We know lots of nurses and they don't work nights. So we know you don't have to work nights either.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Oh my word obviously no nurses here. It's a twenty four hour job. You can talk mb I know nursing. Been doing it for twenty years. The point is that you need to find a job that is compatible with your marriage. You are not forced to be the midwife who works twenty four hours. There are other shift patterns in midwifery and there are other ways of being a midwife than being in the labour ward. The last midwife I saw for my last child did post-natal care with mothers in their homes, and she did a day shift. We get that the job you do now is a night job. What we are saying is that for your marriage to recover you need to change shifts, or change job.
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You know melody there have been some really kind and merciful people on this site but it has never been from you. You are mean spirited and ugly.
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You know you come on here accusing the board that we told him to expose you on cheaterville when no one did such that. And now you are being snotty and rude to posters who are trying to help you.
Do you really want help in recovering your marriage?
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You are mean spirited and ugly. That is exactly how you sound to me right now, Marie.
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You know melody there have been some really kind and merciful people on this site but it has never been from you. You are mean spirited and ugly. Wow. You're being so rude to one of the most knowledgeable posters that we have. Do you really want help? You sound mean spirited and ugly.
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And that woman is absolutely not trying to help anyone.
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You know melody there have been some really kind and merciful people on this site but it has never been from you. You are mean spirited and ugly. Being rude and snotty does not inspire people to help you. It sure does not make me want to help you. Keep in mind you are here asking for help. We didn't come to you. So if you want help, you need to show some simple common manners. We don't have to help you, after all. We already saved our own marriages. Do you have any manners?
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Come back when you can show some manners. I don't help mind helping people, but I am not willing to take my time to help someone who is this rude and entitled.
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I am going to say one final thing because I came on here to ask about the wisdom of cheaterville. It is very interesting that the person who hacked my husbands post on cheaterville was on today encouraging a bw to look up marriage builder. Do you guys get paid for this???
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And that woman is absolutely not trying to help anyone. I see her here trying to help both you and your BH. She's the one that noticed you still hadn't changed your contact information when we had asked you and your BH about that basic EP. To me she sniffed out continued wayward behaviour. That Melodylane is one sharp lady. Too bad you bite the hand that feeds you.
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