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He has taken minimal clothing and belongings so most of his stuff is still in my house. Bag it up and ask him nicely to take it with him next time he visits.
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Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
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He had his first child at 17 then second child at 19 in his first marriage.
We knew each other through church during both our divorces.
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He has taken minimal clothing and belongings so most of his stuff is still in my house. Bag it up and ask him nicely to take it with him next time he visits. The question that comes to my mind is - Can you hold out until Jan 15th? That sounds way too long. There must be other options that can provide you reasonable financial security while allowing you to get into Plan B a lot sooner. In any event, I'd move all his stuff into a storage locker somewhere, and put the key in the envelope with the Plan B letter.
me-65
wife-61
married for 40 years
DS - 38, autistic, lives at home
DD - 37, married and on her own
DS - 32, still living with us
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I'm waiting for the consent order to go through. If I start Plan B he may not sign off. Waiting game! He is still visiting and I have asked him to take his gear but he always seems to go without it.
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