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Originally Posted by Unorthodox
I do...

But at the same time, I also believe we can change what feels natural to us over time.


Exactly!

Originally Posted by Unorthodox
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If one must go long periods without sex, one should not relieve themselves either with the help of devices such as porn.


But what does that have to do with you, a married man? A married man has more control over how much sex he gets than anyone else. Women rely on men to make the conditions for sex right and a single man is only going to be able to access short term satisfaction.

A married man however can control the conditions which make sex so desirable for women. Given that women are capable of a higher level of sexual enjoyment then men, once the conditions are right, that sexual well will never dry up.

But it's only accessible to the man who knows how to create the conditions, which are preprogrammed into all of us. It's actuallly things like porn which poison the well. Instead of allowing the brook to flow freely you're adding poison to it just because it is something designed to stifle natural appetite and take motivation away - it doesn't quench any thirst it just makes you feel less thirsty.


What would you do if you were not afraid?

"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.

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Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Listen to the clips at the end of this thread.
Buyers, Renters and Freeloaders
Did you listen to the clips towards the end of this thread?


FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



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