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You are listening to the fog babble, so stop doing that.
It is pure nonsense, rewritten history, blame, shame/guilt, all dirty tricks to get you to back off the affair.
All unrepentant waywards scream about control, privacy, entitlements. They all act like petulant children.
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Dr. Harley will have some answers. I wouldn't cave on the money, but how you refuse is VERY important.
Use: I'm not comfortable with...
That won't work for me.
Can we brainstorm for something which works for both of us? (She says: but you are unreasonable!....Well I'd still like to try...)
I would appreciate it if...
I would like for us to both agree on... Etc.
Any spouse, regardless of their personality tendencies, should be treated with respect and kid gloves. That does not mean that you agree with them. Your Taker can hold your position respectfully. It's okay for her to be disappointed.
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