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You read the article "When to Call it Quits" that markos posted to you, correct?
How long will it take for you to separate?
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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I'm trying to find info on how to get my wife from withdrawal into enthusiastic agreement to do MB. I saw this on one of your posts but it yielded 1252 pages of results when I clicked it. Ideas?
If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
FH, smart but clueless (aka engineer)
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DD living at home under mountain of student debt, not helping things...
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Hhh....look in a post and find markos....that is in his signature
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You read the article "When to Call it Quits" that markos posted to you, correct?
How long will it take for you to separate? Yes, I read the article, thanks! It would probably take a few weeks to get everything in order.
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You read the article "When to Call it Quits" that markos posted to you, correct?
How long will it take for you to separate? Yes, I read the article, thanks! It would probably take a few weeks to get everything in order. Will you be asking him to move out? Did he ever get his testosterone checked? Did you ever check his phone to see if he is looking at porn?
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Do I even bother with Plan A, or should I just maintain my withdrawal and start preparing to separate? You have already done Plan A. Plan A is approaching him with the program and offering to meet his emotional needs and build a great marriage with him if he will follow the program with you.
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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