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Re: Saving a Long Distance Marriage
Prisca #2900418 06/30/17 11:38 PM
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Well, this week has been traumatic. We finally settled into "friendzone" and he began to be sincere with me about cracks already appearing in his relationship to her. We even got flirty this morning!

Today exposure hit home! One of the people I sent exposure emails to forwarded it to him. He says I am a manipulative bi**ch and have been faking being his friend, that I am selfish and twisted.

Yup, mad as all heck.

Says he never wants to talk to me again. We will see smile

He has now blocked me on facebook, which is out primary place to communicate.

Is now a good time for Plan b, or do I wait for him to calm down and then email or phone?

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Re: Saving a Long Distance Marriage
MsDeb #2900420 07/01/17 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted by MsDeb
Is now a good time for Plan b, or do I wait for him to calm down and then email or phone?

Now is a great time! Are you familiar with Plan B? Do you have a plan to block all communications?

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Re: Saving a Long Distance Marriage
MsDeb #2900421 07/01/17 09:51 AM
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I agree with the others that you should Plan B now.
Here How to Plan B Correctly

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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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