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Very insightful post, Axe! I think you nailed it, and you have given the reader something to think about. I hope she read this.
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Yes, Axe hit it out of the park!
Separated or getting divorced is NOT divorced, you are still married. Ask yourself what kind of man would get involved with a married woman? My own soon-to-be-ex WW has started dating another man (not her coworker affair partner), and a few of our mutual friends know about it and besides being disgusted with my WW, they view the new boyfriend as a loser and an opportunist...what else do you call a man who cavorts with a married woman?
Needy, I'm not saying this to slam you, but to let you know that if you put as much effort into your M as you are with this BF, you could save your M. People make mistakes and bad decisions. Don't let those mistakes snowball into a disaster, you can still FIX your M!
Wishing you all the best.
BH (me) 50, WxW 47
Married 1994
D-day, plan A, & exposure Jan 2017
Divorced Nov 2017
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Needy is not even separated, she is still living with her BH. She is simply openly having an affair.
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