I apologize for bringing this up again...I thought at first I should decide if pride was an issue. Then I clicked the post and... !!<P>I often asked for oral s**, would assure her I would not finish inside...but she never appreciated doing it. (Something about her gag reflex) Not a problem. But she insisted I go down, I loved it, but the first two times were unpleasant. After I saw how much pleasure she received...it was everytime, for as long as it took. Plus, by then she was spoiled. (Hope that didn't sound like bragging.)<P>I suggest using a beard trimmer for both partners. The trim guide can get close, but is safe at the same time.<P>Again...sorry for bringing this back up.<BR>

That Gag reflex is a booger, but with enough time, you can get to where you can do it without gagging. Plus it helps if you men understand that you don't push us down on it. We will go down as far as we can on our own. I really don't think you realize how close you come to getting ralfed on when you do that, but I suspect that's hardly the climax you are expecting. Notice, this is not for all men, but you guys know who you are. I repeat, men, don't get offended unless you know I'm talking about guys like you. Oh, and Woody, thanks for the compliment. I don't know that the world could handle many more like me. I can be a handlful.LOL

I am a new "member" and it feels funny ,maybe even a little telling, that this topic drew my first post, but i read much of the thread and it really made me laugh and smile. my H and I enjoy a very healthy sex life, oral and otherwise, and oral is a very large part of it. i don;t mind offering that i am a woman in my mid-30's who honestly loves to perform oral on my husband. i have often wondered whether i have developed an oral fetish. in any event, for perhaps a variety of reasons that only a psychologist might explain, i have developed over the years a real excitement for him to ejaculate upon me, as opposed to in my mouth. this really has nothing to do with an aversion to swallowing or tasting his semen (i never thought it was all that bad), but rather just something i find to be a turn-on. i have no idea if very many women find it exciting when their lovers ejaculate b/c i have never had the nerve to discuss such a thing with my personal friends.