I forgot to really address the second part of the question:<P>"...for what reasons will that be..."<P><B><I>... to have and to hold ... for better or for worse ... in sickness and in health ... to love, honor, and cherish ... forsaking all others ... as long as we both shall live ...</I></B><P>Does that answer your question?<P><P>------------------<BR>terri<BR><B>Courage</B><P>Whatever course you decide upon,<BR>there is always someone to tell you<BR>that you are wrong.<P>There are always difficulties arising<BR>which tempt you to believe that your <BR>critics are right.<P>To map out a course of action <BR>and follow it to an end <BR>requires courage.<P><I>Ralph Waldo Emerson</I>