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My H was 35 when the affair started.
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WS was 25 when with his 1st A. At 2nd A, WS is now 29. i am 31. Strange but sad, this WS of mine is my 2nd marriage. 1st marriage lasted only 3 years, both EX and myself were WS, and new of it, at me being a WS in 1990-91 i was 20ish-21, the sad thing is that my A was with my H of now, who now is my WS with a repeat of three times, twice in marriage, once before marriage, but living together, and married for 6 years in august.
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WH = 40 (soon to be 41)<BR>Me = 38<BR>Married = 12 yrs in August, 15 year relationship<P>OW is 40 Her H is in his early thirties.<P>BTW it is 1st marriage for us, OW is in her 4th marriage
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Don't think it is age. In researching last night to respond to realitycheck, I came across this tidbit using MSN search (in IE5) in about the fifth page of links:<P>Link Title:<BR>Adultery linked to large testicles <A HREF="http://www.globalideasbank.org/wbi/WBI-21.HTML" TARGET=_blank>http://www.globalideasbank.org/wbi/WBI-21.HTML</A> <P>Article title/subtitle: Adultery linked to large testicles<BR>Summarised from an item in the Times (Aug 11th '97) entitled 'Plastic callipers get the measure of the promiscuous male'.<P>So, obviously, factors other than age should be considered.<P>Godspeed,<BR>STL
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It's all very interesting.<P>It's clear that all kinds of things enter into whether or not you'll have an A.<P>I think it's a good idea to keep what Resilient says in mind. By following the MB principals, we have the best chance of keeping A's away.
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chuckle, chuckle, SNORT, SNORT, SNORT<P>rofl, rofl....<P>Oh, my stomach hurts....<P>SeenTheLight, you have way too much time on your hands....<BR>that is way too funny...<P>Cali
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Cali:<P>Alas, play time is almost over ... back to work for me; but I like to stick my head in when times are slow (as you can tell, this is not a travel week for me, hence working at home).<P>Godspeed,<BR>STL
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STL, you are sooooo funny. actually i never thought of that, ha, ha, ha, but you know, how do i know if my H has large testicles, compared to other men; i never strayed to find out, and don't believe i will. i'll just take it for granted he does have oversized testicles, taking into consideration he has done this three times. Still too funny. And thanks, i needed that laugh!!!!!!
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I think the research was done under the UN's WAMTRF (World Adulterous Male Testical Research Foundation) grant program. I think you can call 1-800-BALLSIZE for more info.<P>Godspeed,<BR>STL
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Mine is 30. married 6 years
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WHEN I HAD MY AFFAIR I WAS 24 YEARS OLD AND WE HAD BEEN TOGETHER 7 YEARS(MARRIED ALMOST EXACTLY 5).
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My H was almost 49, and our oldest child was just leaving for college.
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WS age 25<BR>me age 26<BR>married 1.25 yrs
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Me 30<BR>WW 26<BR>OM 38<BR>married 6 years together for 10
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WH-was 37 when EA started<BR>OW-1 month to day younger then H, girlfriend from HS, seen maybe 5 times in 20+ years<BR>Me-am 38<BR>Married 20 yrs April 01, real crappy day, H wished me H A over an e mail and then told me how things weren't going to change and that he loved OW, Nothing about the good years UGH!!
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My H was 46, and he too had bought a harley the year prior. Midlife, yep.
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MAEZY,<P>My wife (WS) was 31 when she had her affair (I guess that fits your profile of a woman in her early thirties ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/frown.gif) )<P>The OM was 38. (I guess that fits as well! ).<P>We had been married 5 1/2 years when it happened (we had also been together for 5 years before we were married).<P>I guess we're pretty normal. <P>-HD
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Now x had just turned 41 when I discovered the A. I am now 45. OM is about 48-9.
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My WH was 37 when he began A. He was having panic attacks, mild depression (which turned severe after he started A) and yes, bought a motorcyle, lost weight, and started wearing contacts for first time in life!!!
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I was 34 during my H's A.<BR>H was 32.<BR>We were together for 7 years, married for 6 before he had his affair.<P>Early mid-life crisis for my H, contributed with alcohol addiction. We have 2 kids. He said that he wanted freedom and wanted to feel that he had no responsibilities. He wanted to do whatever he wanted...hang out in the bars with all of his loser single alcoholic friends, come home whenever, spend whatever, you name it!<P>What a joke! Whether we stayed together or not, there would always be some kind of responsibility that he would be responsible for!
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