SadDad:<P>What's the latest on this?<P>Clyde

clydeA,<P>Please see my most recent post "to WAT, k, lifeismessy & Faith1" for the latest.<P>sad dad

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by jeffers:<BR><B><P>I asked a question about this a while ago ([URL=http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/011340.html] Friends" or EA? Where's the line? [/URL--Jeffers</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Jeffers:<P>I've asked several times before to be told how I go about providing links to topics and web pages, such as you've done above, but no one has responded.<P>Can I depend on you to be different?<P>Please tell me how it is done.<P>Clyde<P>

ClydeA,<P>O.K. I'll be different. Actually, I'm just going to repeat the procedure that I saw someone else describe.<P>Here's what I do:<P>1) Go into reply (or post) mode - like normal.<P>2) I open up a second browser window and go to link I want to include.<P>3) The "location" box in your second browser window should contain the web address of the page you want to link to.<P>4) highlight that link and copy it to the clipboard (by using the edit/copy menu item in the browser). <P>5) Go back to your reply window and edit/paste the link into your text. You can also just type the full url into the text here, I just find it easier to cut and paste.<P>6) Surround your url with the bracketed stuff<P> [url=web address]title goes here[/url}<P>*Note that the last "brace" would normally be a "bracket"!<P>7) If you leave out the "title goes here" text, then the link will show up just as the web address. I like to put an informative title in with my stuff, but it is not required.<P>--------<P>When you are in the reply page you will also notice some links to the left of the text box:<BR><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/smilies.html" TARGET=_blank>Smilies Legend</A><BR><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ubbcode.html" TARGET=_blank>*UBB Code is ON</A><P>These will tell you even more customizing you can do to your posts. Like <I>italics</I> and <B>bold</B> and smilies !!<P>Hope this helps,<P>Jeffers<P>

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Jeffers:<P>Thanks. I'll checkit out when I have more time.<P>Clyde

Hi all, <P>I've been reading posts here for only a short time so I HOPE this has not been addressed here yet. Here's my situation. MY wife and I have been married 14 years. When we were dating I had asked her about a certain friend of hers, a guy 17 years her senior that she'd been quite "close" to.... They'd spent HUGE amounts of time together over the course of a few years. I asked her then if there'd ever been anything between them. She emphatically stated NO. Well one day around year 2 of our marriage I stumbled upon a letter (from him) that esatablished that they HAD indeed been lovers. Needless to say I was hurt. To know that she's lied to me. When I confronted her about she said that he had advised her "Don't tell Ken.. He won't approve of our ON-GOING relationship". Well I told her then, If he EVER calls you I want you to tell me... I won't ask for details. I just want to know if there's contact". <BR> Over the course of time there's been 3 occasions that he's called her and she not tell me. For an unrelated reason, I installed a "keystroke recorder". Well I watched over a few weeks as she searched on net looking for him. When contacted she tell him, "I love you, you know I always will... that'll never change." OUCH !!!!<BR> So I confront her about this and she tells me, "I was just trying to find closure"... yea RIGHT.<P>Would the scenario above equate to and emotional affair? <BR>Can such words that she used be fitted into finding "Closure"?<P>Any suggestions, thoughts, opinions ?<P>thanks<BR>Ken

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by HeartBroKenTX:<BR><B>Hi all, <P>"I've been reading posts here for only a short time so I HOPE this has not been addressed here yet. Here's my situation..."</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>HeartBrokenTX:<P>You might be better off posting this as an original thread on the Emotional Needs Forum.<P>This is an old thread and you'd probably get quicker and more responses if it had its own title.<P>Clyde<P>

I'm not sure what the answer is - I think if you are doing ANYTHING that you aren't comfortable having splashed across the front page of your local paper...then you probably shouldn't be doing it. My H's EA started with talking on the walk out of work...led to emails...then phone calls...then two secret meetings... I asked him "when did you know you were out of line...and he said by the time they were talking on the phone he knew what he was doing could hurt me. I told him (sorry for language) that was a bunch of bull****; because just turn it around..is it OK for me to walk out and spend 15-30 minutes in the parking garage with some man from my work, is it ok for me to email some man from my work? Of course not. We're all grown ups and some of us really need to start acting the part. <P>Here's my solution to the "just friends" problem. My H is FORBIDDEN to have female friends...no more occasional runs with our mutual friend, ***, no more hanging out with our (single) neighbor in the front yard discussing lawn techniques....NONE. <BR>And IF I find that he does have a female friend, then he may as well be *#&*$)ing her because it'll count as something I'm not tolerating and our marriage is over.....<P>I've drawn the line in the sand.....really hope he doesn't cross it. THAT would be a bummer, because I'm not bluffing.<BR>LLL

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Thanks<P>This is an old thread and you'd probably get quicker and more responses if it had its own title.<P>Clyde<P>[/B][/QUOTE]<P>

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